[shlaunky]

We don't live together, and since we've found out she's pregnant, she doesn't want me to stay over nearly as much.. she gets frustrated a lot, and irritated, she says she sorry a lot too though and that she still loves me more than anything but just wants to strangle me sometimes... lol even when I'm not there? I don't know. I'm hangin in there and am doing everythin she asks, and from what I've read on here , it will get back to normal eventually. She's 8 weeks right now , and her mom just found out she's pregnant too, and I might just be getting the short end of the stick with her moodiness... lol before she got pregnant we were very physical never went a day or two withought, and now she barely even kisses me, will we ever get that back? Just worried she might not be the woman I fell in love with after the baby comes.. doesn't help that I don't have anyone to talk to about this, that's why I just keep typing about everything and anything. Thanks for listening."

[jsje2010]

Pregnancy effected every women different. I feel like strangling my husband all the time, but I love him to death. Sometimes hormons go crazy, and she might just not be in the mood. However, I have always been told the bigger the baby bump the more the girl wants her "physical" time. I am 6 months pregnant and finding this to be very true in my case. She might just need some time. Offer a foot rub or back rub. :) even take her to the store to look for baby things that are neutral it builds a bond and will make her happy.

[katt86]

I agree women react with pregnancy in different ways and I'm afraid moodiness is one of them. I used to cry at the drop of a hat and shouted at everyone in my path. As for the not wanting physical time, think of it this way "why would she want to do what got her into this situation" it sounds harsh but as she is new to this pregnancy thing her thoughts may be doing overtime. The best thing you can do is just be there for her and offer to do nice little things like cook her dinner or even just talk, she may be feeling het up about it being her that has got to go through the pregnancy and not you... I know that was my view right through my pregnancy. I hope this helps you hun :)