[boredwithlife]

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Hey guys so I have a problem my boyfriend is kind of a player. He has recently grown closer to my best friend. They text each other all the time and they talk to each other all the time. If only the three of us hang out then they behave as if its just the two of them and I don't exist. Before I went out with this guy my best friend thought he was hot. They text each other 24 hours and sometimes all he talks about is her. She has a boyfriend from the past three years and I totally trust her as we have been friends for 10 years but the fact that he talks to her more than me bothers me. And every time I try to bring this up he completely changes the topic. Does that mean the relationship is over and that I should break up with him?

Update

Me and my boyfriend had been going out for 3 weeks ( and counting) and things were great. We were completely smitten and things were really perfect. But then one day I suddenly got a call from my best friend asking why me and my boyfriend broke up. At first it didn't make any sense but soon I got more calls from my friends to comfort me about my breakup. I soon heard that my boyfriend had told everyone we had broken up. Soon after that he stopped talking to me and a few days later his best friend told me he had a new girlfriend. I couldn't make any thing out of this and every time I call him up he cuts my phone and ignores my texts. Also recently he had a party and didn't invite me and that really hurt me. It has been almost a week since all these events and now we both are going to meet for a friends party and he told me he needs to talk to me. I don't know what to do. He used me really bad and now I am broken and really hurt :(

[ITstudent2006]

First off, lets capitalize words and spell them out completely. This isn't a chat site.

Secondly, relationships come and go. Someone mature enough to be in one should be mature enough to realize this.

We rise, fall and rise again. Get on your horse and keep riding. Don't boggle your mind trying to figure it out. He obviously didn't care.

Also, I would care less about talking to a 3week b/f then I would about a 10yr best friend! How does she explain their behavior?

[I wish]

Doesn't sound like he treats you seriously.

Be glad that you know the truth. Now you can move on to better things in life.

[boredwithlife]

Thanks guys but its over. The guy broke up with me and then he asked my best friend out. I was sad at first but now I realise he was a complete jerk to me. I guess we are better off as friends