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    Dec 19, 2010, 05:20 PM
    I like my close friend, we are both girls
    Hello Im 16 and recently I have been having rather odd thoughts about a very close friend and I think I have a crush on her. I am a girl and she is too, she has a new boyfriend but she tells me she's not happy with him - latley as I have been with her through a lot of drama, she has opened up to me and has become much less guarded and she confides in me - it's not something she would do lightly.

    Ive always thought she was gorgeous when we became friends years ago, but latley in what I believe to be a light hearted - she will press herself up against me (which I will encourage) and its all a joke - I know she doesn't mean it seriously. Now I have sexual fantasies about her everyday... I think I am deeply attracted to her.

    I've had sexual contact with a girl before and it did nothing for me - perhaps I am bi-courious? I can't act on how I feel for her because I know she doesn't feel the same, but when I try to avoid her she will literally mount me in front of everyone and we are back to square one...

    Help?
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    Dec 19, 2010, 06:37 PM

    I can't act on how I feel for her because I know she doesn't feel the same,
    That would be wise but, you can talk to her about her public behavior.
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    Dec 20, 2010, 01:47 AM
    Well I think you need to figure out your feelings because you know she doesn't have the same feelings for you which should make you want to just forget about those sexual feelings yknow. Sit down and reflect on yourself.
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    Dec 22, 2010, 07:58 PM
    First find out your true feelings.
    Also just ask her you will never know unless you try. Don't live the rest of your life wondering what if and maybe it will just turn out to be the best thing you ever have done!
    WISH YOU THE BEST!!
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