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    Dec 2, 2010, 07:44 AM
    Christmas.. .
    Hi ,

    Me and my ex have a 2 year old son he will be 3 in December and I get him every 2nd weekend all agreed with the lawyers and I have him over christmas I planned to take him away for christmas as last year a wasn't aloud to see my son because my ex girlfriend went to her mums and didn't even let me speak to him on the phone! But now she is saying her lawyer has sent her a letter to comfirm am not getting him christmas at all can she do this?

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    Dec 2, 2010, 08:20 AM

    If you have a lawyer, call him and get this sorted out. She can't just say 'she has a letter from her lawyer'. You would have been informed of any changes in your formal arrangements as well, not just her.

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    Dec 2, 2010, 08:51 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by michael90 View Post
    Hi ,

    Me and my ex have a 2 year old son he will be 3 in december and i get him every 2nd weekend all agreed with the lawyers and i have him over christmas i planned to take him away for christmas as last year a wasnt aloud to see my son becuase my ex girlfriend went to her mums and didnt even let me speak to him on the phone!! but now she is saying her lawyer has sent her a letter to comfirm am not getting him christmas at all can she do this?

    Thanks
    Michael
    Have you been established as the child's legal father, either through taking a court-ordered DNA test or by signing a paternity acknowledgment?

    Do you currently have a custody order entered with the court? Or is your agreement something between the two of you? Does the agreement address holidays?
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    Dec 2, 2010, 07:43 PM

    A letter from her lawyer means nothing, you can pay your lawyer to write you any letter you want.

    If it a court order that matters, did you take her back to court for contempt last year when she would not let you?
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