[Timenotwasted]

Okay so I go to high school and I'm not
Exactly out yet, but people ask me if I'm gay and I just answer whatevr; it doesn't bother me.
But what does bother me is when you fall for a straight guy. I know every gay guy or girl goes through this, but I'm very confuse about this one guy. Hes in the same grade as me and in my gym class. I was playing ninja with my friend and he comes up to me and acts like he's playing and he comes and hugs me. I didn't know what to do, but I laughed and smiled and just moved around. It wasn't like those normal hugs, it was a hug from behind holding on to me. I really liked it, but I didn't have the time to enjoy it. It went on for like 10 secs but it was awesome.

SO this guy likes playing sports so which makes him more unquestionable. I know gay guys can play sports tol but I had past bad experiences so I tend to consider them more straight. Idk what to do. I don't know if he just thinks of me as any other friend or he likes me. Maybe I should just realize that realitys not a fantasy... I don't know what to do.

Help me!

[talaniman]

Gay, straight, or anything in between, never get so carried away by your own feelings that you start assuming someone feels the same as you.

Talaniman Rules-Never assume that your feelings are shared by any one else.

Talaniman Rule- Never be in a hurry to give your heart to a stranger. Wait until they have proven they deserve it, and know what to do with it.

Since you know NOTHING of his motives, OR intentions, do nothing until you do. His hug, what you thought was thrilling, may have been just horseplay among the guys. Don't act on your feeling, without having more facts. Chances are, he may not even know you are gay.

[killerwhales22]

Don't care what other think just come out be proud of who you are and don't worry other people say they are just gossipers who really have no life so be proud

[girlalive]

Y don't u just ask him?