[scaredlilgirl]

I'm 16 and I had sex but he only put it in a little bit because it really hurt, it was my first time but I've been feeling like I've been needing to vomit. But this has only been happening for a couple of days, could I be pregnant? I'm so scared to do a test, cause if I'm pregnant I can't afford an abortion and I can't tell my parents. They would this own me as their child. What do I do?

[Wondergirl]

Yes, you could be pregnant. Now you play the waiting game to take a pregnancy test. And you will have to do that to find out so you don't lose your mind. "Putting it in a little bit" can still cause a pregnancy, and never use "pulling out" as a form of birth control. (It doesn't work.)

When did you have sex? How long ago?

If this turns out to be a false alarm, please don't have sex again until you and he are financially and emotionally ready to have a baby with your educations completed, money in the bank, a place to live, secure jobs, and the support of both families.

People on this site have used more than one birth control device and have still gotten pregnant, so don't think birth control is the complete solution to avoiding pregnancy.

Be sure to let us know whether you are pregnant, because we do care and will be thinking about you.

[scaredlilgirl]

It was about a month ago, but I haven't had any other signs of being pregnant. I know that I will have to get a abortion so how much will that cost.

[Wondergirl]

it was about a month ago, but I haven't had any other signs of being pregnant. I know that I will have to get a abortion so how much will that cost.

Please take a pregnancy test. And if you are pregnant, tell your mom. I would never forgive my daughter if she got pregnant and got an abortion without telling me. Your parents need to be part of your decision. And no, they won't disown you. I felt that way about my parents too when I was 16; they were very conservative Christians -- but now I realize they would not have disowned me.

[scaredlilgirl]

I'm taking one today, and I'm so scared.

[scaredlilgirl]

I'm taking a test today, but I'm really scared.

[Wondergirl]

Let us know what you find out, and we can talk through what to do next.