[ferszty]

Me and my girlfriend were making out for about 5mins and she said she was wet like really wet.
What does she mean by really wet?
And she said it was unconfortable.

[Alty]

She was excited, turned on.

It can be uncomfortable and a bit embarrassing, especially for a young teen.

[ferszty]

OK thanks
So is this a good thing?
Oh yer I did it again today kind of lol

[Alty]

It's a good thing, but that doesn't mean that you should have sex. I hope you're not planning on that until you're much older.

It's just her body reacting to stimuli. It's like a male getting an erection when he's turned on.

[ferszty]

I know all about males lol I don't know much about what haapens too the girl so.
Ummm we might soon but not now another couple yrs or so.

[J_9]

ok thanx
so is this a good thing?
oh yer i did it again today kinda lol

It's a good thing for adults that are ready to have sex and have children. It's not necessarily a good thing for kids your age.

[ferszty]

We didn't have sex we were making out feeling each other.
Is it possible too have sex without sexual intercourse is that okay.
And *** don't call me a kid it makes me feel like I'm a 6 yr old again.
I'm 16 tomorrow :)
But is it good that she's wet when we making out?

[J_9]

Honey, calling you a kid is not bad. You are a kid. My daughter just turned 17, so I can relate to you.

Remember that kissing moves on to petting (feeling each other up) then that moves to sex.

I deliver babies for a living. You have no idea how many 16 year olds come to me when it's time to have their baby and they tell me that it was their first time and that it just "happened" and they really didn't mean it to.

No, it's not possible to "have sex without sexual intercourse." Sex IS intercourse.

[ferszty]

OK
No one ever talks too me about anything really I have too learn all this myself.
Its really embarrising asking my grandparents about sex and that stuff (I live with my grandparents).
Never have and probs never will.

[J_9]

never have and probs never will.

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[ferszty]

OK
No one ever talks too me about anything really I have too learn all this myself.
Its really embarrising asking my grandparents about sex and that stuff (I live with my grandparents).
Never have and probably never will.
Is that better?

[Moozak]

He just means that he has never asked his grandparents about sex, and never will, due to the "embarrassing" nature of the topic.

[ferszty]

My dad tries lol but he fails
And I'm never going to ask them about that topic

[Racken2]

First off, plan ahead okay? Im a very cautious 17 year old and I like being a kid, I like having few responsibilities around the house. When me and my sweetheart makeout, we remember the promise to each other, to wait till marriage, so we stop and try to change the topic to school, or asking each other random questions about ourselves. Yeah, just make sure it isn't lust, because that gets you into a heap load of trouble. Just make a promise to your girlfriend. My sweetheart is 15 going on 16, and god knows if I did anything to her like that... (sex) it would turn out to be a disaster, the stress would come in and eventually the break up. So wait, do yourself a favor and wait, tell your girl: let's wait. I know I have no room to talk but from what I heard these days is kids are starting to have sex at the ages early as 13, which is pretty bad.
Just plan ahead and make sure it is fool proof.