[Dua_khan]

I just want an answer of my question in the light of Islam..
I heard that after marriage if there is no bleeding to girl with sex then husband leave her wife by thinking that she had already sex with some one.. because by first time sex there is bleeding... n I read that some girls are by birth like this that they do not have bleeding in first sex... it is natural that some girls get bleeding and some do not... now my question is why it is natural that some girl got bleeding and some not..? then un girls ka kiya qusor hai jin ko bleeding nae hoti by 1st sex... that there husband remain always in doubt that she has already done sex before marriage?? ager wo paak hain or by 1st time sex with her husband they don't bleed.. n her husband think she already done... tell me *** why it is natural... I want answer.. I don't think so Allah can do this.. this spoil the whole life of that girl who is pious but doesn't bleed... *** *** guid me...

[mmresd]

I am not able to understand what you are saying, at least not completely. But bleeding or not bleeding, as you have said is natural. It's a 50-50 chance and no one has control over it.

Good Luck,

Javi

[Dua_khan]

I'm asking.. when a girl first time do sex her hymen broke and she bleeds over... but I read it is natural that some girls have hymen and some do not got by birth and when they 1st time do sex they does not bleed... I m just asking if it is natural then why is it so?? that after marriage when a girl does not bleed in 1st time sex then his husband will remain in doubt that she had already done sex with someone.. that is why she does not bleed(because in 1st time she hab broken her hymen).. tell me why it is natural is a girl doesn't have hymen by birth then what a fault of her in it that her husband remain in doubt.. is there any solid answer of my question??

[Wondergirl]

Women used to be very inactive, would spend time sitting and sewing or making the meals and caring for the home. Girl children were to be quiet with no physical exercise and were to spend time in the house.

Nowadays, girl children and even grown-up women are involved in running games and sports and horseback riding, in other words, are very active. Their hymens can be broken easily during normal physical activity.

If a groom expects his bride to bleed on their wedding night, he is ignorant of the medical facts and human physiology and also of the reality of 21st century life.

[Fr_Chuck]

I have moved this to the Islam section, since no one who does not belong to that faith can understand the importance put on this.

I will say this, it is more common today that not all women do bleed and many not much.