[mpjs]

I am trying to find out how to record harassing phone messages left by the ex. He is very threatening, controlling and abusive.

[dono2007]

Hello, I'm guessing that you want to record the messages as proof:) , this might work... when your listening to your cell voicemail try putting it on loudspeaker so that you can here it outloud and then record it with a tape recorder, if there is no loudspeaker option on your cell your better off contacting the phone service.

[Fr_Chuck]

Depending on the model Radio shack used to sell a speaker cord but they would plug into a recorder

Also radio shack at least used to sell a mic with a suction cup that you could put on any phone to record