[saptarshiroy]

We are committed for 4 month relationship.and I we love each other very much no doubt about it.but some days ago my girlfriend think about some other guys pic in her mind and its effect so badly on her she always feel she is really committed with me?her thinking about me become negative.and she feel guilty she always depress for that she ;oves me lots she very much depend on me.but we can't go for break up till now but her mentral condition is not well anybody please suggest us what shall we should to do? We never want break up.and we realywant each other plzz help us plzz

[talaniman]

How old are you, and why, and in what way is she dependent on you? What kind of mental condition does she have? Do you live together??

Please explain.

[AleishaJ2010]

I don't know if I am going to be a big help its really hard to anser this Q but I will try for you. Maby ask why she thinks about this other person? And why she feels this way with him? She should not be negative agenst you at all. I know how that feels and after 3 years it sucks and we are still togeather. Why does she depend on you? Just talk to her maby that will help. All can say is just talk and ask her if she has anything going on in her life that is bothering her. I am sorry if this does not help. But I do hope that everything turns out good for both of you.