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    preetybanshival Posts: 4, Reputation: -1
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    Oct 24, 2010, 03:30 AM
    How can I cocentrate on my studies
    I am 16 years old girl and I live with my elder sister and father and my mother don't live with us. My sis is my best friend and whenever I am in pain,in any kind of trouble I share with her but now she has make a boyfriend and she chat with him frm 7am to 12 pm and never talk to me. I don't like that boy because I think he is flirty . He said to her that he love her but can't marry her because of his family after that my sister love her. I am very sad because of this, I can't see her in this situation and that's why I can not concentrate on my studies. I try to telll her that he is not right guy for you but she don't want to understand and stopped talking to me. I am shocked that because of a silly guy my sis is doing this type of behaviour with me. I am in 12th class and science student, I can not concentrate on my studies.
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    Oct 24, 2010, 06:51 AM

    Part of growing older also means growing wiser. A lot of that means having to let go and to choose your battles. You may disapprove of who your sister is dating and your not alone in that feeling inside many families. Do your parents approve of the boy? If they do respect it. If you try to interfere too much you risk driving a wedge between the both of you. You don't really want that. Love is a funny and fickle thing. It also makes persons in love have tunnel vision so they only see what they want to see and ignore the rest. You might try developing relationships outside the family circle and try to not be so dependent on your sister. Be yourself and don't let others rule your life. Be the best you can be and choose to offer others your best too. This is a time to let go. You have to let it go where its going and be there to support your sister if everything falls apart. Not by saying I told you so but just by listening and being as compassionate to her as she has been to you.
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    Oct 24, 2010, 07:44 AM

    If he is being honest that he can not marry her, has she accepted that fact. ( is it because of a class or relgion issue)

    But your sister will grow up and at some point also marry and leave home and you will not have the same relationship with her. Also you will meet a boy one day and also talk with him from morning to night also.

    You have to let her make her own mistakes, as you will as you grow older.
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