[mpepper]

I met this girl at a party and we started to hit it off. She was really cute and she said she liked me. We made out for a bit that night and after we decided to call it a night. I didn't want to move things to fast with this girl since I was really interested in her. She gave me her number and I texted her a couple days after. I thought she was interested and was texting me back and making good conversation but it turns out she was creeped out by me texting her. I really want to appologize to this girl but I'm not sure if I should leave her alone I never meant to come off as a creep I was just interested in her. What should I do, I feel like I should really appologize in person and hopefully she accepts my apology and maybe clears me of the whole creep thingy.

[justcurious55]

Was there something specific about your texts that creeped her out? Was it just too much too soon? Did you say something she didn't like?
Unless you already regularly see her in person, I don't know that seeking her out to apologize is really the best way to go about it. When I was already creeped out by a guy and had already let him know that I was, I would get even more creeped out if they tried to be around me more in person.

[I wish]

If she was interested in you, she wouldn't be creeped out by your texting her, she would actually be flattered that it wasn't just a make out session and that you're willing to get to know her better.

Unless you wrote something creepy to her. Is there a creepy text that you didn't tell us about?

Apologize for what exactly? For being yourself? If you feel the need to apologize for being yourself, then you're not very compatible with her.

Finally, why do you insist on texting, why not call?

[kpg0001]

She didn't think as much about it as you did. The proper way to go about it would have been to maybe text her the next weekend when you are going out somewhere and see what she was up to that night. Maybe suggest going to the same party or bar but keep it light and short. If she's busy or has other plans, so be it, leave her alone. If she shared the same enthusiasm she would make an effort to hang out. A nonchalant approach is key when first starting to get to know someone(especially if it's a girl). Don't freak her out. At this point I would forget about it. DO NOT SEEK HER OUT IN PERSON TO APOLOGIZE! Maybe she took what you said the wrong way and that's her bad. You should move on and if you see her again maybe just say what's up and who knows if you both are drunk again she might just make out with you.

[s.m.lover]

Just text her and tell her that your really sorry and say that you thought she really knew you

[justcurious55]

Just text her and tell her that ur really sorry and say that you thought she really knew you

If they just met why should he think that she really knows him?


Also, text chat is not allowed on this site. Please use full words. i.e. "you're" or "you are" instead of "ur"

[s.m.lover]

Sorry I was in a hurry. And what I meant was that she KNOWS him. Not like she knows him completely and she can tell me his favorite kind of pie right now.

[justcurious55]

That still doesn't make any sense. Just because she's met him and knows him in that sense doesn't mean she doesn't know he didn't mean to come off as creepy. Texting her after she's already indicated she isn't interested may just bother her more.

[s.m.lover]

Good point. That makes sense, though I can't say that I agree with you, it is still an interesting veiwpoint.

[s.m.lover]

Wouldn't that be funny?

[justcurious55]

Wouldn't what be funny?

[s.m.lover]

If she came up to me and told me what his fav. Pie was.