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    babydoll70 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 14, 2010, 10:46 AM
    I just hooked up with my ex from 20 years.
    I just hooked up with my ex from 20 years ago we agreed no strings... we were each others first love. We both married differed people and both got screwed over and now divorced.he worries about me getting to attached
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    Oct 14, 2010, 11:22 AM

    Maybe I missed it. What's your question?

    If you're fine with being a booty call and can handle this "arrangement" then that's your decision. Otherwise, back off and deal with the negative effects of divorce and compose yourself.
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    Oct 14, 2010, 11:57 AM

    Why would you agree to such a nonsense? What, you can't find a man who'd offer you more than NSA sex? Do you really think that low of yourself?

    These are some questions that will hopefully start you in a right direction.

    Good luck.
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    Oct 14, 2010, 07:43 PM

    Making no strings attached works for some, it is just for fun sex, but esp with old lovers, the memory of the good times, far too often start coming in.

    But it is common for one or the other ( sometimes both) decide latter want more.

    So you either go ahead (if a sex partner is all you want) or you don't.
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    Oct 15, 2010, 09:56 AM

    He is worried about you getting to attached because he doesn't want to have an emotional connection with you! Listen you're a grown up and agreed to be nothing more to each other then a Bootie Call. What he is saying to you is don't fall for him, because he doesn't have any of those feelings for you and doesn't plan too.
    There are a lot of people on this site that have let their ex's use them hoping for another chance for a relationship, and ending up just being used. The hurt was devasting. We are just saying becareful with your choices.
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    Oct 15, 2010, 08:02 PM

    If you looking for love, and romance forget it!! All you will get is used for sex. Don't be fooled, and get screwed again. Literally I am afraid.
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