[dangerousdragon]

Threads merged

Hmmm I like this guy and well everyone thinks that he obviously likes me but I am really shy and always have doubts like it'll be the end of the world if I tell him how I feel about him... And I would like to know how to and when to ask for his number and remember I am like severely shy and never been in a relationship before(because I'm young) so like something easy I can do...

[Enigma1999]

Personally, I don't like to chase, I like to be chased.

I would let HIM ask you for your number.

What you can do to make it known that you are into him, is by flipping your hair a bit, and smile at him.

Show confidence.

[dangerousdragon]

Thanks

[dangerousdragon]

Some people think I am stupid and think he obviously likes me but I want to see what others say that aren't my friends because you know they'll tell you anything to make you happy.

Well so seven weeks ago I started school and I thought he was someone else so I started flirting with him being funny not serious but the second day he told me his name and well he wasn't the right person so I started letting my friend flirt with him because I already liked someone else anyway. Until at school we were talking and he was so nice. At lunch I started staring and flirting at him and he would do the same. Then I told my friend about it now she doesn't like him so I am good until... the popular girl started flirting with hi she'd be like o (oops about to say his name there) and his name, your so funny ha ha ha! ( I was going to say his name gosh) He didn't pay attention. Plus the girl would call him this really ay name. He hated it... So I think I am good. And plus he's always ignoring her so am I good? But the othere day I gazed in to his eyes and my heart was awe... and well he's always making up excuses to talk to me like what time is it? Is that a new shirt? Are you prepared for the test? I bet you'll do good I'll probably fail...

So do you think he likes me?

[kctiger]

He is probably shy as well... perhaps he doesn't know you like him. Some guys can't tell if a girl is into them. You could just give him YOUR number and tell him to give you a call sometime. No harm in taking a chance.

[Cat1864]

This may sound like the punchline to a joke, but 'how young are you?'

Is this question about the same person?
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...me-516534.html

[dangerousdragon]

Yes

[Cat1864]

Please review the rules for using the Rating system:

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forum-...nes-24951.html

It may not seem helpful to you, but it is very helpful to me.

Any time some one tells me he/she is 'young' and it is his/her first 'relationship' (or would be), I ask 'how young' to know what type of advice to give. You see, if you are 12, I, as a parent myself, have to ask what your parents' boundaries are because I won't give you advice that goes against theirs. If you are 16 or 17, then you are at an age where a lot parents are okay with their daughters getting involved with males. I know it may not seem right to you, but 'how young' matters.

As for asking if it is the same person in the other thread: Your post on this thread makes it sound as though you have little to no contact with him. In the other thread, you were flirting with him when you thought he was someone else. When you realized your mistake, you stopped flirting with him for awhile and are currently flirting with him at lunch. He is (once again, according to the other thread) making excuses to talk to you.

From what you say in the other thread, it sounds like all you have to do is talk to him as a friend. Open up the communications from 'flirting' to talking about classes and other things that you are both interested in. If you have a class together or the same class but different times, maybe ask him if he wants to study with you (IF it is okay with your parents). Go from there to maybe a group outing to a movie or hanging out at the park (It's a favorite hang place for the teens around here.)

Let the friendship develop and see where it goes from there.