[Gmanv1]

I recently left my old job and all in all had a good time there got on with everyone and everything was neer on cushty. So on my leaving day a friend came up to me and says " theres someone in the store who really likes you" and obviously the first thing I say is who? Anyway turns out its this girl I must of spoke two like twice in the two years I've been there nice enough but I could bearly remember her, anyway he said "she asked me to ask you if she could have ur number and maybe go out on a date or something" I fault two myself what have I to lose so I gets her number we start texting after a few I said you want to go to the pics or somin she said yes and we did. This is where I saw another side to her on her phone all night txting her mates, she hardly speaks and when she does its all very boring very different to what I fault she would be so we watched the film witch bye the way she was like oh didn't that film go on and I said sarcasticly under my breath year because I actually enjoyed it anyway we walked out and said bye kiss on cheek and she got in her brothers car and road off. That was it I can't help feeling there was hardly any attraction from my point of view but she carried on txting and low and behold we went out again this time bowling and only this time I brought a mate along. So she arrived this time not even a kiss on the cheek just a hi but I can live with that but It all seemed so awkward! Another thing she hardly put her hand in her pocket once which I don't mind but you offer just out of respect don't you (well I would) anyway both the dates in my eyes were crappie! To be honest so I fault that was the end of it BUT low and behold she is still texting me so I'm kind of confused in what to do? Should I give a third date a go or should I just say were not working or something more soft along those lines

I need your friendly advice please help! :confused:

[tamed]

Why bother with another date? She sounds like she's undecisive and immature, for someone you barely noticed before is she worth all this hassle?

[s_cianci]

It doesn't sound like the two of you are really compatible. I think that going on any more dates would just be a waste of time. I'd just ignore her texts and not respond to them. If she confronts you directly then just be honest with her and state that you don't feel that the two of you are compatible and you don't feel that things would work out between the two of you.