[chiefabhc]

I can'y find any books about husbands married to gay women. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

[Wondergirl]

Does she want to continue to be married? She "thinks" she is gay? (What does THAT mean?)

Yes, there are books. Do you want fiction or non-fiction?

[chiefabhc]

Okay maybe "thinks " is not the right word. She is pursuing a relationship with a woman now. But she wantes to stay married for now.

Non-fiction. Perferrably from a mans (husband or ex) point of view but will look at all suggestions.

Thanks

[Wondergirl]

There are helpful web sites. Here's one --

Same Sex Infidelity -- Why Wives of Gay Men are the Last to Know

Here's another --

http://www.straightspouse.org/blog/?tag=gay-married

[slapshot_oi]

Okay maybe "thinks " is not the right word. She is persuing a relationship with a woman now. But she wantes to stay married for now.

Non-fiction. perferrably from a mans (husband or ex) point of view but will look at all suggestions.

Thanks

If had a wife and she thought she was a lesbian, I would suggest she talk to a therapist. But, if she was perusing a relationship, I'd being talking to a divorce lawyer.

The prospect of her being a lesbian isn't the issue. The real problem is that she's cheating on you and you're allowing it! She's taking advantage of you, you need to put a stop to this.

[Wondergirl]

Here's one title, but it's dated (but probably not inaccurate) --

Ivan Hill - The Bisexual Spouse : Different Dimensions In Human Sexuality ; 306.765 BIS