[kitten2]

I went out on with new man
I went out with this man, he took me to Cinema, and after he drop ed me home, next time went out to get something toe eat. Then after wards he pulled up in his car then said give us ********, I said no and he said that he that he knows other girls who give him one, and started showing their pictures. I said I ain't like that . He said there's no such thing as descent men, that all men just looking for sex and that you never find descent man. I then got out car and when drove by me, he stopped called my name when I stopped he chucked opened bottle water at me. Then drove off laughing. Is true most men are disrespect full and are just looking for sex, and may well just mess about because no one looking for relationship with someone. Cause most men I meet seem to be like this sadly

[Cat1864]

Kitten, this may seem harsh, but I think you need to slow down rethink where you are meeting the people you are going out with. This is the third male you have posted about since September.

The first one only met you in hotels for a couple of hours.

The second one took you to a strip club.

At least this one took you to a movie on the first date and for food on the second one before bringing sex up. However, throwing things at you when you decline his request is not a mature thing to do.

I don't know where you meet these men and I don't know who you are passing over to go out with them, but I think you need to make a list of what you are looking for in a date. Then, look at places where you can meet and get to know men who have those qualities. Perhaps, getting to know them better before going out with them.

I don't recommend dating someone from work. However, if you are in school, clubs can be a place to meet people with the same interests you have. So can volunteering, community center classes, hobbies, the gym, etc.

Yes, there are descent men out there. They are generally overlooked because they don't jump up and down shouting 'pick me'. It means that you have to do the work to find them and be aware of them when they do approach.

Good luck.

[QLP]

ERROR: You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Cat1864 again.

Kitten, Cat has it spot on. You are meeting the wrong kind of men because you are looking in the wrong places and going about it the wrong way.

The guy in question was a total jerk and no, not all men are like that. How on earth would there be any happy marriages and families if that were true?

[Collegeguy_24]

There are decent men out there, I am one of them. Problem is most women tend to ignore us because we are to "Nice". We also don't just jump up and down saying pick me as was stated above. Women need to actually go out there and look for the man instead of waiting for them to come to you.