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    Jan 1, 2007, 11:01 AM
    Will She Come Back To Me
    I been with the woman I love for 3.5 years.lived together for 2.5years. She has an issue with trusting me.she says she sees me gawking @ other girls,little white lies I have told to avoid arguments.ex:i gave my son 30.00 he told her I gave him 10.00.and the big one; her friend called me @work one morning and thought my girlfriend. Was mad at her.then she started complaining about her marriage.she then said how happy my girlfriend and I look,always going out etc.I told her that we to have our problems and told her about an incident which my girlfriend broke my new lcd TV because I purchased a yard sign off a school cheerleader for 10.00.she did replace the tvt and said she's sorry.I told her friend that's what you do when you love someone.u forgive them.since then her and my girlfriend got into a fight and she told my girlfriend what I told her about the TV.I was trying to show her this is what you do when you love someone forgive them.my girlfriend. Thinks I was having a pitty party with her friend.now my girlfriend moved out and is mad as hell at me.shes seeing someone else she says there just friends.and says she wants some space.she don't trust me.all I was trying to do was help get my girlfriend. And her friend back together and now I lost her.
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    Jan 1, 2007, 06:24 PM
    This girlfriend of yours sounds like a piece of work. You're better off without her. It's not your job to solve her personal problems where her friends are concerned. Unless she changes big time, pretty soon I doubt that she'll have any friends left.
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    Jan 1, 2007, 11:57 PM
    I'm sorry you put up with someone like that for almost 4 years. She's violent, demanding, and overbearing. She obviously doesn't care about you if she can so easily move on after 4 years. I know this isn't the answer you want but I think you and your son are better off without her in your life. I'd rather be alone than put up with someone like that.
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    Jan 2, 2007, 05:54 AM
    You should be thankful your free of that crazy nut.
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    Jan 2, 2007, 01:20 PM
    Did I do something that wrong for her to throw away our relationship?
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    Jan 2, 2007, 02:08 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by davidrp61
    did i do something that wrong for her to throw away our relationship?
    NO!! DO NOT blame yourself for any of this. If she can just walk away to someone else it shows me she never cared or hasn't cared about you in some time. It appears that she tried to manipulate anything to be your fault and I'm sure after some time perhaps you began to believe it but you were in the right here.
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    Jan 2, 2007, 03:20 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by chuff
    NO!!! DO NOT blame yourself for any of this. If she can just walk away to someone else it shows me she never cared or hasn't cared about you in some time. It appears that she tried to manipulate anything to be your fault and I'm sure after some time perhaps you began to believe it but you were in the right here.
    Chuff is right, Putting all the blame on yourself is not fair to you since she obviously had a lot to do with this situation. Sometimes even our best efforts in a relationship is not enough to keep people in our lives. See it for what it is a difference in what you each wants from life so move on knowing she just wasn't the one for you.
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    Jan 2, 2007, 03:25 PM
    She sounds like an ex boyfriend of mine he would always tell me I was flirting with other guys and tell me I was cheating when overall he was the one cheating. In a cheaters mind they are in complete denial and try to put you at fault for the mistakes they have made. Don't put yourself down there are plenty of other woman who will trust you
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