[haleyrenee]

I like OK like were just friends cause we just meet like a week ago and last night I needed somewhere to stay cause of family problems and he offered for me to stay with him. The whole time I was there he would joke around with me and we would like play fight and stuff like that and I would catch him looking at me and stuff like that and keep making excuses for me to lik touch him like taking my phone and putting it behind his back and stuff... when it was time to go to bed I said I was taking his bed and he came and laid wit me after like an hour... when he came and laid down we were talking an I said I was cold or smttin and he liked pulled me over to him and said he would keep me warm he put his arm around me and put the other hand on my leg but I really cnt tell if he likes me or he wants and my pants?? Help me I always fall for guys to fast and end up getting dissapointed or hurt?

[ninjajr92]

Well this is pretty fast I mean a week and you guys already fell asleep with each other in bed... Don't let your feelings exploit just yet. I can tell you like him since you allowed this to happen and now you are at a confused state. If I were you and wanted to get to know him better, go out for walks with him, talk to him, etc. Spend time with him so you know what kind of guy he is and what not. Don't let things happen to fast, take your time. Time is a key element in making any sort of relationship.

[DoulaLC]

He's likely to go as far as you are willing to let him. No doubt he likes you, but if you are willing to give him something more, he probably won't turn you down. You gave him the opportunity to see just how far he could go... next time you can bet he will try to push it a little bit further and see if you offer an resistance.

Find another friend to stay with if you can't stay at home. Avoid putting yourself in a situation where things are likely to move faster than you expect... you have already said you know you move too fast as it is. Be careful that if you are having troubles at home, you are not moving too fast because you want attention or to feel cared for and are looking to guys to fill those needs.
You could have slept on the couch, you could have asked for a blanket. Put on the brakes. YOU have control over that!

[Fr_Chuck]

Yes most likely he wants both, he likes you and wants to get in your pants, That is where you have to control it and say no