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    AyshaHx Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 5, 2010, 06:25 AM
    I want to my friend to be my friend again how?
    Hii
    Errm well last year me and my friend right her names hannah OK so hannah and me were relly close but we fighted quite abit but I said after the summer I would like change :( but she's stopped being my friend altogether well best friend and well it really upsets me because she cut me and my other mate off completely as well so yeah... and well um,she talks to my other mate normal but not me she's all awkward and I want to ask her stuff like yeah and I don't know how what should I do HELP :'( xxx
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    Oct 5, 2010, 05:37 PM

    How old are you? Friends change because life changes. We all change to some degree with time.
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    Oct 26, 2010, 10:07 AM
    All you have to do is talk to her and ask her if to her is there a friendship between you two, after that try working at some issues that she might have with you. You never know, she might be feeling the same way you are RIGHT NOW!

    Good Luck,

    Javi
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    Oct 26, 2010, 10:47 AM

    Don't just sit around and wait on Hannah to talk to you... you need to step up to the plate and make the first move toward mending your friendship.
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    Oct 26, 2010, 11:11 AM

    To mend something that's broken you must first determine how its broke.

    By the words "I would like change" it leads me to believe that it's behavorial issues on one or both of your parts.

    The one thing I want to stress is that you should never change who you are in order to gain friendship from another individual. People are different in their own ways, these differences attract those who are alike and repel those who are not. If she is meant to be your friend, she will be, if not then I personally wouldn't worry about it. Life's too short to spend it chasing potential friends. A true friendship is not something that must be worked on like an automobile, it comes natural by the connection of your personalities, behavior etc...

    It's like a shoe, would you want a shoe that's way to big and requires constant adjusting or would you want want that slips on easily and care-free?

    People change, they grow up or sometimes they don't and prior friendships disappear. I am no longer friends with my two best friends growing up (we won't go into the reasonings why :))

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