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itscrissy1 · Sep 28, 2010, 04:06 PM

Well okay, at the moment, I feel stupid. Me and my boyfriend been sneaking out last week and last wed. (The 22 of Sept.) had unprotected sex. It started with a condom but it was bothering us, Like it wasn't lubercated. So we took it off, and had unprotected sex for like 2 hours. It really botherd me when he said "Uhhh baby, I think I should put it back on!" I didn't reaaly say anything but it REALLY did bother me. I didn't ask him to stop or anything. He did put it back on and then took it off without me knowing. I asked him if he tooken it off again and he said yeah. I was just like whatever. Then Friday (The 24 of sept) his family founded out about all of it and now if I'm not pregnant, he is getting sent to Ocala, Florida which is about 5 hrs away from were I live. Yesterday (the 27 of Sept) I stayed home from school. My dad tooken me to the health dep. To get a test done and it came out negative. They said sense I was only 2 days late (Im 3 days late now) and I only had sex a few days back, It would be too soon to tell anything so she said come back in 2 weeks if I haven't gotton my period. If I do, I would come back and they would put me on BC. Im having a late period, stomach pains, I would feel sick to my stomach sometime, and below my ropb cage, I feel pressure, and its VERY hard there. I also have vaginal discharge. Today I went to my guidance couceler at school to talk to her. She said if I am, she would help me get T.A.P which is a teen pregnancy program. My dad would help me sign up for WIC which is a system from the government and it helps with food for the baby and the food I need to eat. Im taking a pregnancy test at school Thursday or Friday. Yes, they have them at a middle school.

All I need is help about this...

Fr_Chuck · Sep 28, 2010, 06:05 PM

Sounds like it is well taken care of, you are getting proper medical care if needed, and the boy appears to not be going to jail ( at least at this point, depending on his age and where you are at)

DoulaLC · Sep 28, 2010, 07:29 PM

Certainly pregnancy is possible, and as Fr_Chuck said, it is wise that you and your father are making sure things will be taken care of it necessary.

Hopefully you aren't pregnant. Your period could be late because you are worried about the possibility of pregnancy and all that has gone on. Since you are young, it can be late for that reason as well.

It sounds like the sex was just a few days before your period was due... this makes it less likely that you would become pregnant... still possible, but not as likely. Also, you normally wouldn't be feeling any changes just yet because if you were pregnant, the egg would just be implanting at this point, if even yet.

The stomach pains, discharge, etc. may be that your period is due to start soon.

While possible, it is unlikely that you would get an accurate result on a pregnancy test just yet. Give it another week or so and try then if still no period.

It is unfortunate that the two of you didn't think farther ahead to what the consequences might be. Now he may have to move away, and you might be pregnant on your own. I hope that you are not pregnant and that you will have learned a valuable lesson about protection all the time, every time. Better still would be to learn that you are not ready to be having sex just yet. Good luck! I hope it all turns out well for you... :)