[Jessbru]

OK, so there's this guy and he dated both me and other girl in my grade last year. He says he likes me and can't stop thinking about me, but I'm sure that he likes this other girl as well. She's a bit of a slut and trusts everyone easily. She tells him she loves him, but when I asked her, she said that she tells everyone that she loves them. This boy knows that I need him in my life and that he's so important to me. He stays up all night to talk to me and talks to me on msn basicially all day.
But, when I went out with him, we didn't do much and he dumped me for the other girl. When they were going out, they went really far. I asked him if he likes the other girl, he said yeah but just as friends. I asked her if there was anything going on between them and she promised me that there wasn't anything going on.
But I don't know... if she wants him, she can have him easy. He went to the movies with her today. I don't know if it was as a group thing or not, but he didn't even tell me or bother to invite me. I always feel like crap, unless I'm talking to him. He makes me feel happy.
Please help. I don't know what to do :S does actually like me or her ?

[toby2010]

Hi, this is a typical boy thing, most boys think in there pants and not with their brains. I think the situation is this. He wants some fun which he knows he can get from this other girl so he will always be able to get what he wants most of all from her, but from what your saying he looks like he does like you and probably knows this is his best option to be with you because you are a decent girl. In time he will realise you're the much better option so do not worry all he is after is some fun and that's no reason for you to give into him and get your clothes off. He's being a typical lad that needs to open his eyes and realise what relationships are all about and not just about the sexual side. Don't worry he will make the right decision sooner or later

[Jessbru]

Thanks so much :)

[toby2010]

Trust me if he makes the right decision he will go for you not just someone who opens their underwear! :)

[Jessbru]

I sure do hope your right

[martinizing2]

Never be a leftover for anyone.
He already dumped you once to go out with
Someone you describe as "easy" , then
Promises you nothing is going on.

Give him his walking papers and tell him honesty and
Trust mean something to you so he just won't "fit in"
Then ask if one of his friends may be interested in you.

You can do better than him and deserve someone
Who will be honest and respect you.
And that person is out there, don't miss him by
Spending any more time with " mr. raging hormones"
His kind are not worth your time.

[martinizing2]

There is an exception I would point out.
I think the decision is Jessbrus to make regardless of his decision.
He already decided to dump her once.
I think she needs to dump him.

[toby2010]

That's a bloody good answer may I say lol

[Jessbru]

Thanks toby2010, you were right :)
And martininzing2, I'm keeping that in mind.