[staceybaby87]

Hi I need help in finding out who my baby's father is.. Im currently 28 weeks pregnant baby due 16/12/2010. My last period was 04/03/2010 which are regular 28 day cycle. I had a one night stand with a guy on 09/03/2010, then I slept with a different guy on 11/03/2010 who I have been with ever since he also thinks he is the father and doesn't have a clue that there's another potential father. My dating scan showed that the baby was conceived 12/03/2010. Im scared in case this is wrong, I want the father to be the guy who I'm with now as we are very happy together. I carnt afford dna test which I also want to avoid if possible as my current partner hasn't a clue about the othe guy. Which guy do you think is my baby's father please help?

[Curlyben]

A paternity test at BIRTH is the ONLY way to tell who the father actually is.

[Jake2008]

I'd say the timeline is cut short enough, that it is possible that either man could be the father.

Only a DNA test as Ben said, will determine the baby's father.

You have a lot to consider in coming clean with this knowledge. By keeping it secret, your boyfriend doesn't have a choice whether to stay and raise another man's baby, also, the actual father does not have a choice whether to parent his own child.

The baby cannot afford to be robbed of its parentage, because you cannot afford to have the test done.

My advice to you is to start the child's life off with what is in his/her best interests in the long run, and that would be, to eventually know who her real father is.