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    JMAD13 Posts: 5, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 6, 2010, 06:00 PM
    Help with being the New Guy
    So I have been away from my hometown for 2 years, out of country. But now I'm back for a while, and I'm the new guy. Thing is, I've known some people in school ever since Elem, but I never grew any serious friendships. I was kind of shy. But the time away Has helped me grow and I'm ready to be there. But again, I'm the new guy, and I can't seem to find my stride with anybody yet. It's only been a week though, I'm I being paranoid? Suggestions on getting my stride? Any will be helpful
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    Sep 7, 2010, 06:27 PM
    You need to lighten up the mood. Say something funny, and try to target people who are like you. Then you can expand your friendships, and be happy. :) srryz if it doesn't help. It worked for me. Im a marine brat and I move every 6 months. So.. I understand. Kind of. :)
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    Sep 7, 2010, 06:58 PM

    Use your strengths... you seem to be mature, smart, and friendly. Have fun. Go to events. Ask for help with something, rides, etc. Find something in common. :)
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    Sep 8, 2010, 03:40 PM

    Relax. Just go with the flow and let things work out on their own. If you try to be popular then others will sense it and you end up looking like a fool. So be yourself and others will gravitate in your direction.
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    Oct 10, 2010, 01:13 PM
    Thanks Guys!

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