[angel_love123]

I'm 27yrs old female... my boyfrend n me we have a relation past 5yrs nw but still he doesn't commite n also he is married and has kidz

[Enigma1999]

i m 27yrs old female...... my boyfrend n me we have a relation past 5yrs nw but still he doesnt commite n also he is married and has kidz

Hello Angel,

He is married, so why would he want to get married to another woman?

I believe he is playing with you. Let me ask you, why do you settle for being the other woman?

Why would you even want a man who is married to someone else?

If he does this to her, then what makes you think he won't do it to you?

Come on Angle, walk away from this.

You are engaging in cheating and that's wrong ad unfair to this poor woman who has no clue.

If you were the one wo was married, and you found out your husband is leading a double life with another woman, how would you feel?

[Alty]

He already has made a commitment, to his wife.

You're just a bit on the side, and you've let him use you for 5 years.

What sort of commitment do you expect? He's giving you what every cheating husband gives, sex, and a few hours a week, after that it's back to the wife and kids, his real family, his real life.

[talaniman]

Harshness warning okay, rude, cold, and uncaring, but guaranteed to be the straight up truth!

After 5 years, and you haven't figured it out??

One of you is a fool, one of you is an idiot. Take your pick, you can't lose.

[Shadowburn]

I'll make it simple.. how can he marry you if he's already married?

[Devorameira]

His priority is his wife and kids - you will never be anything important in his life. Even if he did decide one day to marry you, then you'd be in the same situation his wife is in now... because if a man cheats with you, he'll also cheat on you.

Right now he only uses you for "a little on the side". Have some pride and quit playing the "other woman" and find yourself a real man who wants you to be his Number 1!

[Kitkat22]

What happens if you do talk him into leaving his wife? You'll grow older and he'll look for another young thing.

If he treats his wife like this, what makes you think he'll be true to you? He WON'T.