[aaron4321]

Hi I'm 15 I'm overweight and ugly I get bullied evaryday by evaryone evan though I'm a nice person I've never been kissed and what ennoyes me is I know I never will and I hate my life I want to kill myself I just don't know what to do

[redhed35]

If you think you have a weight problem why not do something about it?

Take up swimming or running,clean up your diet,your health will improve and your skin will be healthy and spot free.

If you're a nice guy,people will see it,join running or swimming clubs,give people a chance to get to know you.

How do you know you will never get kissed?

How could you possibly know?

Start changing how you think about things,start being more positive.

As with the bullying,again,do something about it,talk to your parents,talk to the teachers.

Most bullies are cowards with a whole lot of personal problems and issues that you probably can't comprehend,the only way they can get any control is through bullying.

They need help just as much as you.

Start talking to your family/teachers/family doctor and start today off on a new foot.

[Kitkat22]

Many young people who are overweight or too skinny or too smart, too short, too tall are bullied.

Bullies don't need a reason to bully but they do.

First of all you have people here who are willing to give you great advice if you will take it.

There are Anti-Bullying Laws in forty-seven states and zero- tolerance in as many.

Years ago it was considered tattling if you or your parents told about the bullying.

You talk to your principal... Call him at home and tell him. He is not allowed to reveal you are the one who told.

The kids who stand around and watch the bullying and do nothing can also be called in and asked about it.

The reason the laws have gotten so strict is because of Bully-Cide.
Kids who are bullied have taken their own lives because they felt there was no other way out.

There are Bully Patrols in some schools. You do not have to be a victim anymore.

Document, keep and save all text messages which are derogatory in nature that specifically pertain to you. If there are are ugly messages by computer , Face book, Twitter etc. that is Cyber- Bullying.

Don't be afraid to tell. Let your parents know. You could be saving not only your own sanity, but the sanity of others who are going through the same thing as you are.

Bullies need to be stopped. You have the power to be a lifesaver not only to yourself, but someone else.

If you stand up for yourself it might work, but you can't fight three or four kids. Bullies always run in packs, they are too insecure to try it by themselves.

Now, start exercising and eating right and stick to a good diet. Make exercise fun.

What are you going to accomplish
By taking your life? The Bullies aren't going to care, they'll just move on to someone else and you will be just another statistic.

The ones who are left hurting are your family. You don't get a second chance after you commit suicide. No proms, no college, no wedding day. All this because you feel that this is a final answer to a temporary problem.

You are loved. Start looking in the mirror and finding the good things.

Be a leader by stopping this and be proud that you have stepped up and said "No More".

Try it. Call your Principle and let your Parents know.

[Fr_Chuck]

A bully would bully someone for any reason, wearing glasses, not being popular, Why do you allow someone else's opinion rule what you think of yourself.

Next most 15 year old girls have not been kissed.

You need to get professional help, start with a school couselor and also go to walmart, look at all of the people who come in, people no matter what they look like find someone who loves them for them. High school is not real life ( not adult life anyway) things change completely after you graduate

[paxe]

I've never been kissed until 18 years old, it's normal.

[Justwantfair]

I wasn't kissed for the first time until I was seventeen. I remember how awful I thought it was, but you can bet that not every one you know has been kissed. Try working on being happy with you, that includes doing something about your weight if it makes you unhappy.

When you are happy with who you are, boys will be drawn to you because there isn't anything more attractive than self confidence. Unfortunately, most of us dealt with bullies because the teenage years are uncomfortable and cruel for many reasons. Talk to your parents and talk to a counselor at school. You are not alone, you won't know that until you reach out.

[Clough]

Hi, aaron4321!

What sort of good things have happened in your life, please? For instance, if you have things that you enjoy doing, it would be helpful for us to know about them.

Thanks!

[cdad]

Life is always going to throw bullies in your way. The difference between having them in your life or not is your choice to let them be there. Stand up for yourself and your rights. At the age your at most things happening by other guys is a myth at best. A lot like to brag and they embelish so much its far from the truth. Get your act together. You have choices. Make them positive ones.

[aaron4321]

Thanks people I posted this question just to find out if I wasn't alone evan though I knew I wasn't and the bullying isn't a problem anymore it just was when I was younger wich made me howi am now I suppose. And I wouldn't kill myself because it its cowerdish and I suppose my life will get better. Thanks for answers

[adam_89]

Glad to know you have a little better attitude. A positive one. Things will get better, things always get better. Just be thankful to be alive and don't feel alone and suicidal. There are people that need you in this world and you always have us here at AMHD.

[aaron4321]

Hey callie
Thanks for posting and for some reason I want to have my first kiss in my teen years because it seems better lol but I doubt that will happen but evaryones comments have helped so thanks

[helpthecause]

Its okay everything will get better. You are just hitting a road bump!! Maybe try to get into a sport or eat healthy! HOw do you know you will never get a kiss? There is someone out there for everyone, you just haven't found him yet. Just keep pushing through, instead of writing all of those negative thoughts, make a list of all the positive things about yourself. I bet there is something really special about you. Don't be self fish, your life will go on, and you will turn into something great. Keep pushing yourself, stay positive and NEVER GIVE UP!!