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    CandyGargoyle Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 20, 2010, 02:40 PM
    Is my Girlfriend sick and tired of me and likes someone else?
    Here's Me problem

    Me an my girlfriend have been dating for about 8 months now.
    I made sure before I told her I liked her that she didn't like anyone else.
    A few weeks before we got together after I told her I liked her I noticed there was this guy who was kind of always talking to her an making her laugh. That made me kind of nervous because she didn't tell me if she liked me back.(I don't even think she thought about it at first.) Then I noticed her friends making fun of each other about who they think likes who in their group. When they did her an told her the guys name all she did was try to hide a big smile and told them 2 shut up but for any other guy it was like a u wish or id never go with him response. But the guy switched schools so that stopped an the same day she decided she liked me. I didn't know what to think I was a little offended but I just thought just be happy she said yes.

    After about 2 months I noticed she liked 2 hang around this other guy than with me an do things with him she wouldn't do with me. No she didn't really know him or talk to him. A few weeks Later me an my friends were just goofing around dissecting in science when they looked over @ another table an saw him an her leaning in on each other and said they should just get together already. I said you see it 2? It was pretty obvious

    A few months ago like a week after that I starting thinking was I just a last choice?or is she using me? She tells me a lot of things but she eventually proves them to be a lie by saying the truth about it later on accident.

    When we're on dates she likes to text other people. She invites people along on them or if sometimes they can't go she just cancels. I look at her when she's not around me and she's as happy as she wants but when she's with me its like just make this guy go away. She doesn't show any public affection. When I hug her she doesn't hug me back she just stands there. She tells me she loves me over texts but I don't believe her I mean if she did she would tell me not text it. She doesn't respond to my texts or calls its at the point where we don't text at all unless she wants something. When we're together she doesn't talk or even look at me as much any more. Im pretty sure she likes another guy but I don't know if she does. It just seems that way.

    This whole thing has put me through a lot of emotional stress and pain. I really loved her but I don't know if I do anymore.

    I just need help on what I should do with her or say to her cause I don't know what to do with her anymore. Im so confused on what she wants from me. I think she's just tired of me period.
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    Aug 20, 2010, 07:00 PM

    Okay so from what I c. U should definitely leave her alone. She sounds rude n disrespectful. No comunication at all. I would let her go. However I would make sure your feelings are known.
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    Aug 20, 2010, 07:47 PM

    I've tried telling her this stuff but she said when it comes to a subject about me an her she gets really sensitive about it I don't know y.
    She's the nicest person I know. There's some comunication but not a whole lot like it is with her with other boys. I thought about letting her go a lot of times but she's the only person who still gets me
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    Aug 20, 2010, 08:22 PM

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