[Rhonda1128]

Me and my boyfriend have been trying to get pregnant for sometime now and we just can't get pregnant is there something wrong with me or is it him?

[JoeCanada76]

First question is how long have you been trying for? Anything 2 years or past of trying to conceive without any success would warrant a visit for both of you to a fertility clinic. As far as being one person, you or him. No. It might be that it is just not the right time as of right now. In the women's cycle there is only 3 or 4 fertile days in a month. Now if you go crazy like jack rabbits all the time. The more often you make love, the less chanch of you becoming pregnant. For example: Doing it as much as you can to get pregnant could lower his sperm count. As well as if you do it more then once in a day. The sperm will try to compete with the sperm from earlier and kind of cancel each other out. The women's body will think it is from another person and reject the sperm. As well, the sperm will stay alive for 3 to 5 days in the women's body. The one major issue is stress. It is a proven fact that stress, or any medical condition can actually contribute to not being able to conceive. So every other day around the fertile time.

Oh you, maybe this might help. Do it when on vacation. Go all out and enjoy yourselves if you can. It does work.

[Turby]

Hey well I know how you are feeling I have been trying to get pregnant for a LONG time now and still there is nothing I though maybe I was doing something wrong but then.. I stated to think hmmm maybe god don't want me having a kid rite now but then I stated looking stuff up on the Net and how to get pregnant fater.. and I found some things and I have tried them I'm not sure if they have worked yet I guess I will find out and see if my Period comes but ill tell you something that I found and I have tried try and up a Pillow under your Hips when you and your boyfriend are trying for a baby and Don't think about trying for a baby just enjoy yourself and Don't use a big pillow try and use a Falt pillow and then when he go"s inside of you don't let him get off you rite away keep in on you for about 5 minutes because there is a little more Semen that comes out of him that you and him may not relize and don't get up rite after sex and don't put your clothes back on rite away and just lay with that pillow under your Bum for a few minutes after and try not to let it Come out... and if you guys are using KY jelly that could also.. be the problem it is not a good thing to use KY jelly but them are some things that I have found out and I have tried I'm not 100% sure that they work but I have tried them and I will find out if it works on the 12th I hope this info helped and all the Best to you and your boyfriend...