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    Aug 16, 2010, 09:49 AM
    My boyfriend forced me to have sex..
    OK, so, my boyfriend asked me if I could come over to watch a movie. When I got there he was like, do you want to watch a movie? I was like, not really, then we just sat down and we started making out. Then we went up to his bedroom and sat down, and continued making out. Then he went over and locked the door. He took of his shirt and his pants, his boxers were the only thing left. Then he came closer to me and I said, what are you doing? he said 'be quiet, we're going to have fun', then he came and took of my shirt, then my shorts. He said he wouldn't go in cause he doesn't want to become a father and loose his virginity yet. But after he DID go in!! It hurt so bad :(
    I told him to stop! but he wouldn't listen, after a while he finally stopped, I was so scared, is there a chance I'm pregnant?

    By the way, I just turned 16 and he is 18.
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    Aug 16, 2010, 09:55 AM

    Did you tell him NO?
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    Aug 16, 2010, 09:57 AM

    You need to tell your parents, close relative you trust, or even a friend about this RIGHT NOW. What he did was rape. You need to be seen by a dr as well and report this.

    Please alert someone close to you that you trust and can help you through the process.

    You can also call this number 1.800.656.HOPE it's for RAINN which is a rape hotline.

    Please tell someone right away there is only so much for you that we on this forum can do for you.
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    Aug 16, 2010, 09:59 AM

    You said he forced you? Report him. You are 16. He has probably done this before. Tell your parents.
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    Aug 16, 2010, 10:09 AM

    Call the cops and/or tell your parents.
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    Aug 16, 2010, 10:17 AM



    Honey, you need to tell your parents and call the police. What happened was RAPE, and wasn't "just getting carried away", it was a crime---and an 18 year old would know that.

    No matter how much you "love" him, he's sure to have done this before, and will do it again to the next girl (and there WILL be a next girl, believe me) unless you stop it.
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    Aug 16, 2010, 10:31 AM
    Best to wait until the OP comes back to answer some of the questions.
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    Aug 16, 2010, 10:32 AM

    You, need to tell someone, and yes you could be pregnant. His actions are unacceptable, dangerous, and illegal.
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    Aug 16, 2010, 01:46 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by lover17235 View Post

    by the way, i just turned 16 and he is 18.
    You should have read the Announcement on this board. This board is the ADULT Sexuality board.

    You need to seek the guidance of a parent or other adult who is close to you.
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    Aug 16, 2010, 01:53 PM

    He coul not only do this to someone else, he could do it to you again.
    Tell your parents. This guy raped you and that is a crime.
    You also need to examined by a doctor.

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