[annascott]

Dear experts,

I have dated with my boyfriend for about 2 months. He is an energetic and social-type person. Besides, he is confident and optimistic. Also, he is usually busy with his work. Sometimes, he works overtime.

As recently, he has some problems to solve with his work, I found that he does not pay much attention on me. I would like to know how man deal with work and dating relationship.

Also, I want to know how can I support him in this period. (But he does not want to make me worried and bring his difficulties after work). How can I be faithful with this relationship during such critical period (i.e. When he put much time on work) as sometimes I feel lost and insecured.

Love,
Anna

[brightblue]

Just as always be there for him. If he gets distant... bring him hback to the future... make him laugh and try to get him to talk about other things besides work... it will help him relax.

[chaz1797]

Have you communicated this to him and that this is how you feel? Also remember that in a relationship it has to be a 50/50 thing and sometimes those sacrafices we make now pay off in the long run... Talk to him and what your feeling and ask how can you make things easy for him, and at the same time plan romantic moments for yourself to take him away from his work. Best of luck and God bless

Chaz :)