[Silver Lining]

Hi, I have been married for 4 years now,, we have a baby girl who is 7 months old...
My hubby is a nice guy,, very caring,, I know he loves me a lot,, but he doesn't express it much,, I feel bad, he hardly gives me time,, this is not a change, this has been him since the beginning,
I see other couples going out, having fun,, n I feel bad that I don and get the same, we don't even celebrate our anniversary properly.. his way of celebration is going out for dinner... that's it,,
I see my bro giving flowers to his wife on her b'day., on anniversaries, or sometimes without a reason,, it hurts me that my hubby doesn't do the same,, I have never been surprised by him,, ever, the only surprise I got was when he told his parents about me, apart from that, no other surprise, it has been 5+ years since we met...
I spend the whole day caring for the baby and doing the household chores,, I hardly get time to relax, no TV, no outing, no entertainment of any sort,, I feel frustrated,
All I expect is occasional flowers or some small surprises,, which will boost me a little,
What do I do,, I tried telling him several times, in fact once I told him directly as to how I feel,, no use,
I feel so bad that sometimes I feel like running away from everything,
What do I do..

[Clough]

Hi, Silver Lining!

How does your husband usually express how he loves you, please?

Thanks!

[Silver Lining]

He says "I love you" and he also cares a lot,, stands against anyone for me,, sometimes does the chores when m too tired, there r a few things that says that he loves me,, but its different,

[Clough]

I'm sorry that I missed you here, Silver Lining! Hopefully, well be on here at the same time another time...

I'm sure that there will also be others who'll be responding to this thread that you've started.

Thanks!