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    Makexaxscenex3 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 16, 2006, 07:30 AM
    Help me.
    :( OKay well... ihave a boyfriend and I like a guy.but my boyfriend is so sensitive if I break up with him then hell like cry and stuff but he won't leave me alone and its really annoying should I break up with him?or stay.. ineed help please.
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    Dec 16, 2006, 07:38 AM
    I think you need to tell him as nice as possible that you 2 just aren't right for each other, but reassure him that you'll stay friends, or tell him that you know someone else who really likes him, to give him a boost of confidence!
    Hope this helps!
    p.s if it goes wrong, put another question on here!
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    Dec 16, 2006, 07:39 AM
    It sounds like you have broken up with him before, since you said if you break up he will cry.

    You don't stay or go because of what the other person will feel or not feel,

    If you don't like them and don't want to be their boyfriend or girlfiend, you do it off or mutal and joint feelings, nor pity.

    And being sensitive is not a bad thing, but it may not be what you want in another person, so you find the one that matches your desires.
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    Dec 16, 2006, 07:44 AM
    If you have no feelings for your current boyfriend then it is wrong to just stay with him because of the way he may act as this will just lead to you having lots of resentment towards him over time... If you know that deep in your heart that you do not want to be with your boyfriend then you need to stand up and walk away ! You need to answer yourself true and deep in your heart that you want to make the break and answer to yourself if there really is no love there anymore.

    You say that you have found another guy that you are interested in, maybe not a good idea to rush straight out of one relationship into another without taking time to get your head and heart straight as to where and what you want out of life... No one on this forum can tell you, yes it right to break it off or stay with this guy, only you can make the choice after you look at all your options and where you want to go with your life.
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    Dec 16, 2006, 11:20 PM
    Speaking as an emotional guy myself I can tell you that if I'm with a woman that I love dearly but she's interested in other guys then I don't really want her either. In other words I will hate the break up but I'd rather have that then to be some one's pity boyfriend.
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    Dec 20, 2006, 01:21 PM
    MY advice would be just to let him know that you guys aren't meant for each other. BUt say it in a way where his feelings won't get hurt and to where he doesn't think your tryin' to say something that you don't want to say. If it's not working out, then you should let your boyfriend know even if he's sensitive, if you stay with him then it will only make matters worse.


    Hope this helps you to make your decision of what to do in this situation.

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