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XoxaoifexoX · Jul 13, 2010, 03:43 PM

Ok so I went out with this guy for a while and he adored me and I adored him until we had a visiting school from Wales and I was talking to one of the welsh boys who might I add was really cute! He asked me out but I said I couldn't because I had a boyfriend. Later on someone told my boyfriend that I said yes to the welsh boy! He broke up with me then later on when he found out what happened he wanted me back. I said I need to think about it because hadn't trusted me-big mistake! The next day he said he didn't want to get back with me! I was really upset, and then he did the worst thing!:: he asked out my best friend since I was able to speak! She said yes and now I still can't get over it and he just said that he prefers me! He's still not going to break up with my best friends though :( I feel like I have a big hole in my heart... It's not that I'm lonely: lots of other boys have asked me out since but it just doesn't feel he same when I'm with them :( what should I do? Hlp me

Kitkat22 · Jul 13, 2010, 03:47 PM

How old are all of you?

ISneezeFunny · Jul 13, 2010, 04:03 PM

... I think I saw this on an episode of Days of Our Lives.

First off... he apparently wasn't that great of a boyfriend if he didn't even think to ASK you about the welsh boy.

Second off... he apparently wasn't that great of a boyfriend if he thought to ask your best friend... the next day.

Thirdly, SHE wasn't that great of a friend if she said YES to the boyfriend... the next day.

Kitkat22 · Jul 13, 2010, 04:06 PM

Originally Posted by ISneezeFunny

First off...he apparently wasn't that great of a boyfriend if he didn't even think to ASK you about the welsh boy.

Second off...he apparently wasn't that great of a boyfriend if he thought to ask your best friend...the next day.

Thirdly, SHE wasn't that great of a friend if she said YES to the boyfriend...the next day.

Exactly Sneezy... you hit right on the head:eek:

All I can add is "Some Friend":rolleyes:

talaniman · Jul 13, 2010, 04:09 PM

I guess your seeing everyone true character now. That's good, but hurts like hell. Be more careful how you choose friends, and boyfriends.

Kitkat22 · Jul 13, 2010, 04:18 PM

No it doesn't! You shouldn't be dating at all. You are way too young.

What do your parents say about "all these boy"? You need to act thirteen. You'll grow up soon enough!

ISneezeFunny · Jul 13, 2010, 04:42 PM

Whoa. 13 year old. I should have guessed.. . what's with all this "dating" at 13?

Kitkat22 · Jul 13, 2010, 04:46 PM

Originally Posted by ISneezeFunny

whoa. 13 year old. I shoulda guessed. ...what's with all this "dating" at 13?

I think going out would probably be to the playground to swing or climb
The jungle gym.:D

ISneezeFunny · Jul 13, 2010, 05:01 PM

Ah, the good old days...

Kitkat22 · Jul 14, 2010, 03:41 PM

I don't care if you are in the best school in Europe. You are to young to be so boy crazy. Grow up and then date. You're attitude could use a makeover also.

XoxaoifexoX · Jul 14, 2010, 03:43 PM

Most people start dating at age 11! I am 13! My parents are the best parents in the world and they understand what happens at my age!! And please stop judging me by my age!

Just_Another_Lemming · Jul 14, 2010, 03:59 PM

Xox, talk to your Mum about this whole situation. Believe me, she went through the same thing when she was your age. This is the kind of stuff Mums live for! She wants you to confide in her so she can hug you and dispense motherly advice. Talk to her. She will tell you what to do.

;)

Kitkat22 · Jul 14, 2010, 04:02 PM

Originally Posted by Just_Another_Lemming

xox, talk to your Mum about this whole situation. Believe me, she went through the same thing when she was your age. This is the kind of stuff Mums live for! She wants you to confide in her so she can hug you and dispense motherly advice. Talk to her. She will tell you what to do.

;)

I am agreeing lemmon... Talk to your Mum. Very good advice.. lemmon:cool:

cherrysher · Jul 23, 2010, 02:54 PM

OK. I'm 13 too. So I understand how your mind works, well as best as I can. And I think that its true that the boyfriend wastng that great if he didn't ask you about the welsh boy, he asked out your friend the next day, and she wasn't a very good friend for saying yes. But just saying that isn't help. I think you should talk to you ex and you friend and work it out. And if they keep dating even if he prefers you, then that's his loss. You sound like a great girl. If they don't act nice or friend-like to you, it their loss for not having you. So just talk it out with both of them and tell them how you feel. It should help:)

XoxaoifexoX · Apr 28, 2011, 04:14 AM

Thanks 'cherrysher' :) that really helped :) we all talked it out and now we are all really good friends :) (my best friends, our ex and I) x