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    dynamitegirl14 Posts: 10, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 9, 2010, 01:40 PM
    Guys, why do they act like they like you? But won't date you.
    I don't have any problems talking to guys. That works out fine. It's like we hang out, it all goes good. But they just use me, to flirt, and kiss. It seems like their all worried about what others think. No guys really know that I talk to other guys, like I've never gone out with anyone at my school. All the guys talk to me, just when their in a group. They ignore me. Almost like they all don't think anyone talks to me? Its annoying. I've only gone out with older guys and guys that go to different schools. I'm 14. And in 9th grade. Starting high school. Should I try talking to all the guys when their together? Or will that end badly for me. Its like on Facebook, ill get Imms from them, but ill imm them when their hanging out with their guy friends. And they won't even reply. Now guys I don't know, like if I go to the mall, they will stop and try to talk to me any everything. Help me. Ahah seriously. Is it just an ageing thing?
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    hbug Posts: 27, Reputation: 5
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    Jul 27, 2010, 09:45 AM
    Haha the guys obviously like you but when they're with their friends they're probably just busy. I say go say hey to them when their in their big groupss or whatever and if they ignore you forget them. High school is where the guys want only one thing, but if you find the right type of guys it'll be more than that. Don't let them bug you because hun they're just not worth your time if they can't say hey when they're friends are around
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    Homegirl 50 Posts: 10,794, Reputation: 2604
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    Aug 9, 2010, 07:24 AM
    Maybe they are only interested in kissing and flirting. Stop doing that then maybe one who may be interested in you will talk to you.
    At 14 you should not be going out anyway. Maybe the guys your age just want to hang out and be friends, nothing wrong with that.

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