[tamika_18]

"i h@ve sum1 that says he loves me but he also loves h!s ex grlfriend too he goes back and forth seeing me and her what should I do? Im tired of him being confused between me and her! He says h3 don't wnt 2 hurt neither of us! Wat should I do?

[kp2171]

First, read the site rules...

Too much text speak and the mods will erase your thread in a breath. Done with the ruler meets the knuckles talk.

Second... figure this out now and not later... he is playing back and forth and you deserve better than that.

I mean... if a person doesn't want to be exclusive, fine. Had a great ex girlfriend who was open to seeing others... tho' we both were exclusive for the most part.

But that "im so torn i love you both so much i cannot decide" noise?

k.

Little patience for that.

Walk away. Unless he is willing to work his arse off hard for you and only you, well, you know you are just going to be slotted into whatever time is convenient for him. Which is fine if that's what you are after...

But its not enough for you.

Understand its OK to really like, even love, someone who is bad for you. It happens. Until he chases you hard and ditches the ex this is just a game he is playing.

He is either an arse or a p#ssY... and neither of those are what you are looking for, right?

Sorry.

He is a Great Guy But... meaning women write in here all the time about how great a guy is... except for the fact he is cheating or he is wrapped around an ex, etc...

Demand more for yourself.

Trust me...

Most of us do not demand enough for ourselves for far too long.

[positiveparent]

Ideally both dump him if not then you dump him, you don't need to share a b/f, and he's not going to change anytime soon when he's getting the best of both worlds.

You can put a stop to that by telling him to take a hike in the fast lane of the freeway or motorway( UK)

Also I hope you're protecting yourself from not only an unwanted pregnancy but also STDs and AIDS...

[kp2171]

One love cheated on me... a great motivator for keeping away from her advances when she felt the need to be with me?

Knowing her kiss would taste like him.

So... think about that. Let it p1ss you off. When you kiss him, are you tasting her?

If that doesn't make you push him away a little, I don't know if I can help...

[talaniman]

Either share with the other girl, or get your own guy.

I can't believe people still fall for that old players rap!!

[Devorameira]

You need to break it off with him. He really can't be in love with both of you.

In my opinion he's just using you. Move on and go NC.