[mike198227]

I've ben with my girlfriend for 5 years now she has a terminal illness which puts a massive strain on our relationship sometimes we argue and fight but I love her very much and always try to my very best for her now we have hit a rough patch and have separated and she says she doesn't know how she feels about us and she finds it difficult to feel anything and her head is all over the place but we do see each other sometimes I have been texting her loads I'm almost possesed I hate it and she doesn't like it either I'm seeing her again next week we are going out for the day and I'm looking forward to it but not sure what to expect or how she will want me to behave around her whether she will want me to gfo near her or notreally don't know what to do I do know I love her very much and want her back and I know she cares about me a lot she just isn't coping very well at the moment

[talaniman]

All you can do is be a friend with support, and presence as she is going through a lot, and probably can't give you much in return. Ease up on all that texting though because its breaking her heart.

Sorry to hear about her illness, and just be strong for her now.

[positiveparent]

If she wants space then give her space, don't keep texting her, but be there for her if she needs you she's got a lot on her plate dealing with a terminal illness, she has to possibly get to grips with that, and that's going to make her changeable.

You need to put your wants to one side if you really care about her, she's going through a tough enough time as it is I would imagine.

When you meet up with her next just be yourself, you've got to understand she's facing her own immortality and that's got to be very hard for anyone.