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hatelove · Apr 13, 2003, 12:05 PM

Bradley and I have been dating for like 4 months now and he promises me all the time that we are going to do something alone... well just last night, he promised me the same thing and he showed up at my friends house with all these people... saying that he was going to a party with all his friends and if I wanted to go then we would only stay for an hour and then we would be alone. Why does he do that? He says that he loves me but then acts like he doesn't care what I want. What should I do? I know I love him... because I would never do anything to hurt him.. but does he love me as much as he says he does?

dwalex · Apr 17, 2003, 09:01 AM

You need to tell him exactly how you feel and tell him that he needs to make room for you in his life. If he will not, move on - life is too short to stay in dead end relationships.

hatelove · Apr 27, 2003, 01:08 AM

If you have read my other questions and complaints... I'm happy to say that I finally ended it with that . Yes I do miss him... but I was hurting while I was with him. So BE HAPPY FOR ME! If you have the same problems I did then you need to let that person go.. now...

chaz1797 · May 14, 2003, 07:59 PM

Good luck and remember that you did right and never let anyone make you feel that you didn't. Good luck and God bless

Chaz ::)

chaz1797 · May 14, 2003, 08:34 PM

You need to communicate to him what you are feeling and ask, what is feelings are, because he might feel different than you do... love can hurt sometimes, but it's best to know the truth now and avoid future pains... good luck God bless

Chaz :)

hatelove · May 28, 2003, 01:58 PM

OK... my boyfriend and I have been together for like 6 months. And I love him with all my heart. I want to be with him until the day I die, but my parents are doing everything in their power to keep me from seeing him. The reason they do this is because... he has done some stupid stuff, but what person hasn't? I know that people can hurt other people without knowing how or why. But.. if my parents see that I am extremely happy with this person then why should they let his mistakes get in the way of making their daughter happy. I really don't know what I should do. I really do love him, and I couldn't care less what my parents think of him, but how should I react to this. I want to see him. Thanks,. casey

dwalex · May 30, 2003, 10:24 AM

Your parents are getting in the way because they love you. If he is the one then tell him he will have to wait until you are older and can make that choice without parental interference.

Best wishes,
dwalex

rrt69 · Dec 19, 2003, 12:17 AM

Don't blame the parent they only trying to protect you from what they think is a mistake. Im sure once they get to know him and see him though your eyes they will accept him. You should brake any of there rules because that would just get them angrier.

Krystal · Feb 3, 2004, 04:04 PM

If you are living at home, your business is not your own. If you are old enough to leave, do so. If you are being supported by your parents while you finish school, they must love you enough to do so. If they love you, how wrong can their loving advice be? If it is so wrong, you do not belong living there. The ball is in your court. Either stay and be hassled or leave and be free to make your own mistakes... and pay for them!

sweety · Jun 5, 2004, 03:06 AM

You need to tell him how you feel otherwise he will think there's nothing wrong and keep repeating the same mistake.
I no its hard when mates in between you and your partner, I've bin through it but communicating helped me so it should help you too. :)

Bioman55 · Jun 9, 2004, 04:09 PM

I think that he is shy.
Just because you to have benn going out won't mean that he is not shy. He doesn't want to go alone with you because he is scared of what you might want to do and he feels better with his friends.
P.S this is just a thought don't "" me n this