[kalpa]

I hurt my boyfriend by breaking the promises I made with him. I even went out with a male friend when he was in need of me. He gave me a second chance on it which I again lost it by receiving too many calls from my male friends. He had enough of it. He said he is too hurt to ever trust me again. He even caught my lie about not going out with my male friends. I have tried so hard to give our relationship one last chance but he said he can trust me no more. I had always neglected his presence when I was with him. I've realised my mistake but it's too late. I just wonder whether he misses me or not or still has feelings for me not.

[Homegirl 50]

He may still have feelings but he does not want to be with you so at this point whether he does or not is immaterial.
Respect his feelings and leave him alone.

[pompomchick]

Oie! Why didya break the rules if you wanted it that bad!
Yes,he's hurting as much as you are,but then you broke his trust.There's a bit too much damage here.Make sure you don't repeat the same mistakes again.
Do apologise to him and try and be friends with him. He'll come around if he is ready to forgive you and give you another chance.but don't be too smashed if nothing happens. Its okay.Learn from the wrong you did.
Best wishes.

[kctiger]

He got mad that your male friends called you... he got mad that you hung out with other males... am I the only one who thinks maybe his demands were a bit unrealistic and immature?

I think you both are better off, as you both have different priorities and ideas of what a relationship should be. You should learn from your mistakes (that being ignoring him when he was around) and do better in your next relationship.

[Devorameira]

I see nothing wrong with having male friends, but if you made him promises over and over again and didn't keep them, then I would say he was right in not trusting you.

I'm sure he misses you, but you've hurt him a lot and it sounds to me like he's through trying to make anything work out with you.

Time for you to move on. Leave him alone and let him heal.

[jmjoseph]

He might miss you, but he'll have someone else to boss around, and make false accusations to, and undeserving restrictions on soon.

I( and a couple of others) don't think that you should be feeling as though you did anything wrong. Your male friends calling you? Who could ever control that? They are your friends!

One day you will find a guy that knows how to give someone a little slack, and how to respect the other persons feelings, and freedom.

Never be someone else's property.

I wish you luck.

[mawtom]

You sound so immature. I wonder how you would react if HIS females "friends" called him constantly. Keep tip toeing through the tulips my dear. One day you will come out the other side... good luck

[chance43211]

I've been in this situation before and I don't think he still has feeling for you I know its hard to hear but if you break someone's trust they won't ever act the same around you esspecialy if you went out with another male sorry

[talaniman]

You have had enough chances, and he would be a fool for giving you another, whether he misses you, or not.

[JoeCanada76]

To be quite frank and honest here.

What does it really matter whether he misses you or not. Or has feelings for you or not.

Its over...