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    Jun 15, 2010, 03:02 AM
    My boyfriend has stopped been intimate with me
    My boyfriend and I are together ten yrs. We moved in together in February, he actually bought the house behind my back. We were suppose to be buying house together. He didn't want that. Since we have been in the house, he has been behaving like a single bloke, the last three weeks he hasn't been intimate with me at all, it like he punishing me I feel, he said he hasn't thought about why he hasn't been intimate, I don't believe that. We have daughter 3 yrs old which he didn't want, he said he don't like disturbances in he's life, but to everyone else he paints different story of himself.
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    Jun 15, 2010, 10:02 AM

    OMG, he considers his daughter a disturbance to his life? That all I would have had to hear for me to be gone. I think him not being intimate is the least of your worries. How have this relationship survived for 10 years?
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    Jun 15, 2010, 10:48 AM

    Don't you think that if you're happy with this relationship after 10 years, it's time to move on?

    You've given him enough chances. I think it's time to give yourself some chances in living a happier life.
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    Jun 15, 2010, 12:59 PM

    Leave, get your own place and file for child support and alimony/temporary maintenance.
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