[Notunderstanding]

Well, to be honest. I've been dateing this guy for over 9 months now. But I seem to go into these spells. Were I won't want to see him nor will I seem to feel any emotions for him. Then all of a sudden one day will come and all I want to do it see him again and hang out with him.

Also, lately when he takes me out to eat. I'll get really sick to my Stomach and not want to be around him for very long. The night can be going wonderfully but then all of a sudden. I'll just get sick right after eating. It doesn't seem to happen when I'm out with my friends or anyone else. Any ideas?

[Alty]

How old are you?

Seems to me that you really don't care about him, otherwise you wouldn't be having on and off feelings. Sounds more like you just want to have someone around, but when he is, he annoys you or you find things that make you not want to be with him.

Let him go. He doesn't deserve to have his heart played with like it's a yo-yo.

As for feeling sick when you're eating with him. It sounds like nerves, or maybe it's the restaurants you go to. Go to the doctor to rule out anything medical.

[Notunderstanding]

Well I'm 27 years old and this is the longest relationship I've ever been in. Most of my relationships only last about 3 months if that. I mean I know I'm new to this whole thing really, but I never know what to expect.

[aimee_tt]

Fear of commitment?

You have been with him so long so you try pushing him away because your afraid of commitment?