[bishal79]

Hi there,

I have been dating a girl since a month.. we have been going on dating almost 6 times now. On the 3 rd date I proposed her but she replied me that she feels me only as a friend,I was hurt at that time.. but even after that we still talk in phone as a good friend for hours,and even she comes to meet me when I call her to meet up.. she don't make excuses.. just wondering do she like me is she just testing me whether I am a right guy for her? but I love her truly and I am crazy for her love.I always had a fear inside me that I will loose her forever... but she treated me as a good friend, and I am happy on that one but I will be more happy if she becomes in my life as my partner.what should I do to make her feel my love towards her? What should I do to make her love me? Should I again propose her and tell her my love is true for her? I am in total confusion what should I do can you help me out? Thanks

[ZoeMarie]

Ok, where are you from? A month isn't that long to be dating someone, and even if I did like a person based on how well I knew him in a month's time, I wouldn't say yes to a proposal either. It takes a lot more time than that to get to know a person, and it takes more than love to make a relationship work.

[friend4u178]

You proposed to her on your 3rd date?? No wonder she's running for the Hills.

SLOW DOWN and just enjoy getting to know each other , if she falls for you it will be through your times together and if there is a natural connection , you CAN'T make someone like/Love you. Hopefully you haven't blown it already by being too eager.

[talaniman]

Just keep doing what your doing, and enjoy the getting to know her, and let her know you, and that will let the lust wear off so you can be a normal guy with interests.

No more proposals, please. Relax, slowdown, and smell the coffee, and savor the flavor.

[Cat1864]

Bishal, how old are you and how did you meet this woman?

Some of the best marriages start as friendships. Friendships that grow over time to include mutual love and respect. Friendships that allow the individuals to learn very important skills like working together, communication, and compromise.

[Devorameira]

Slow down - you're letting your emotions override common sense.

Proposing after only 3 dates is absurd. You barely know each other. You certainly don't want to marry someone that isn't right for you.

Step back and just hang out, date her, and be her friend. Don't push her... if she's the one for you the love will develop. Just be patient!