[ayshu]

My boy friend hate me I'm 18 but he's 28.. my mom also know about this relationship. I don't know why, he's not caring about me, I gave and giving him a lot love he didn't give it back to me. If any 1 know the reason please help me guys. I fed up with him.. if I touch his hand also he hate that. But once a upon a time he gave me thousands of love, because of him I hate my life, everyday I cry for him. Please give me a solution for this.. if I didn't get a answer I think I will depressed.

[talaniman]

So how long were you in this relationship, and was it arranged?

[I wish]

Why are you staying in this relationship if it's making you unhappy? Like you said, relationships are about behing happy and being loved. If you don't have those things, then this relationship is going to end anyway. So why drag it out? Why not make a clean break now?

[artlady]

Not all relationships last forever and sometimes people do fall out of love.

It happens and you have to find the strength to accept that and let him go if he is truly not interested in you any longer.

No one should be treating you in a way that makes you feel depressed.

One of the biggest lessons you will learn as you grow up and mature is that if you don't like what is happening in your life you have the power to change it.You will also learn you cannot expect another person to be your source of happiness.

Do you have realistic expectations about the relationship?

You are very young and you may be expecting the lovey dovey part of the relationship to last forever.It does not and there is more to a relationship than physical affection.

How does he treat you otherwise?

[Devorameira]

I don't know why he's treating you so poorly, but I do know that you don't deserve it.

How long did you date him?

Were you dating him and having sex with him while you were a minor?

I know you love him, but it appears that he isn't interested anymore. I'm sorry to say it but I don't think it can work. He is rude, disrespectful and just plain mean to you. I don't think he really likes or loves you.

I think you should run far away from him because he's controlling and may become physically abusive because he's already mentally abusing you. You should find someone that will love and respect you.

[ZoeMarie]

If you're sure he hates you, and you're not exaggerating, then don't waste your time. I wouldn't.

As Artlady said though, maybe your expectations are unrealistic. It's hard to know without more information.