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    May 24, 2010, 02:11 PM
    I am a girl and I was wondering about this other girl if maybe she likes me or not?
    Hi all I hope you can help me with this situation.There is a girl at work I am wondering about.I am wondering if she likes me or not.Everytime I see her at work for instance she wants me to go to lunch with her every day if I am at work with her.Every day that I am working she wants to work that day.She stares at me.She smiles at me.She likes to stand close beside me.Every weekend she wants me to come up there if she is working.How can I tell if she likes me by her body language?Do u think she likes me?I appreciate any information and thanks you for taking your time out by helping me.
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    May 24, 2010, 02:19 PM

    Do You like girls?
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    May 24, 2010, 04:28 PM
    I would say it's obvious that she likes you for all the reasons you stated.

    If you are asking if she likes you, as in a gay relationship, it's like any other relationship, you need to talk to her about it.

    If it is just a friendship between friends, I'd say if you are compatible as friends, what's the problem.
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    May 29, 2010, 09:05 AM

    I don't know your ages, or how long you have known each other, or even what kind of "like" you are talking about, but be very careful about any ideas of romance in the place you work at.

    It can become very complicated. I do mean VERY complicated.

    Do you like HER?? What else do you want to see happen, and be honest about it.
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    May 31, 2010, 04:05 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    I don't know your ages, or how long you have known each other, or even what kind of "like" you are talking about, but be very careful about any ideas of romance in the place you work at.

    It can become very complicated. I do mean VERY complicated.

    Do you like HER??? What else do you want to see happen, and be honest about it.
    Well I am 18 and she is 24,and the like I am talking about is more than justed friends.We have know each other for about 2 months,and I do like her a lot,but I was wondering if she liked me.I don't know what to do.
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    Jun 1, 2010, 08:28 AM

    Just like any friendship or relationship, just keep getting to know each other better and let things flow naturally. No need to overanalyze all the details.
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    Jun 1, 2010, 02:08 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by I wish View Post
    Just like any friendship or relationship, just keep getting to know each other better and let things flow naturally. No need to overanalyze all the details.
    Well today she told me that she used to like girls,but she is straight now.I mean I think she is flirting with me.Today she asked my orientation I told her I don't know and she said your confused then.And then I said are you straight and she told me yeah.So do you think she likes me or what?I mean if she don't like girls then why is she flirting with me for?:confused:
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    Jun 1, 2010, 04:26 PM

    Flirting has nothing to do with anything. I think your confused because you don't know how to handle yourself.

    No one can say what her motives and intentions are but if you have an interest then find out for yourself what she wants. People flirt all the time, for many reasons. Just remember this is a co worker, and you are there to work.
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    Jun 1, 2010, 09:23 PM

    Sometimes, be friendly and flirting can be mixed up.

    Think about it this way, if she's being friendly, then she actually wants to be your friend, so that's a plus.

    But if she's flirting, then she's kind of cheating and why would you want to be with a cheater?

    My guess is that she's just being friendly.
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    Jun 13, 2010, 04:49 PM

    It's possible that she's simply an overly friendly girl who wants to be your "friend". That doesn't mean that she's gay and is wanting a romantic relationship with you.

    Quit worrying about it. Just be a friend and see if anything develops later.
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    Jun 13, 2010, 04:52 PM

    Ok, if you have already talked about her previous sexual preference, ( and I assume you prefer girls? ) So tell her, and be direct, if you are interested, ask

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