[rasher]

I had sex with my girlfried 3 weeks ago without condom.now she is having severe abdominal pain.is she pregnant

[rasher]

Which is the safe time for intercourse

[Clough]

Hi, rasher!

How old are you and she, please?

Thanks!

[aimee_tt]

Is she due for her period? It could be period pains.

Is she on the pill? Or was it full non protected sex.

There is no safe time for sex. Even straight after your period you can fall pregnant.

[rasher]

Is she due for her period? It could be period pains.

Is she on the pill? Or was it full non protected sex.

There is no safe time for sex. Even straight after your period you can fall pregnant.

No it was an unprotected sex

[aimee_tt]

Go to the shops buy her a pregnancy test and pray to god your sperm wasn't strong that day.

I suggest you get her on the pill and you use condoms before you have sex again...

If she is pregnant I hope you will do what's right for the baby. By that I mean if you both can support a child then raise it. If not then adopt it out to a family who can't have children of their own.
Or if she is way to young I hope you have an abortion for her sake.

[Wondergirl]

which is the safe time for intercourse

There is no completely safe time.

[rasher]

Go to the shops buy her a pregnancy test and pray to god your sperm wasnt strong that day.

I suggest you get her on the pill and you use condoms before you have sex again...

If she is pregnant i hope you will do whats right for the baby. By that i mean if you both can support a child then raise it. If not then adopt it out to a family who can't have children of their own.
Or if she is way to young i hope you have an abortion for her sake.

She is having severe abdominal pain and giddiness since last 3 days.why

[aimee_tt]

She may be sick. Take her to a Doctor.

[Clough]

Do you think that you're old enough to be a parent and also want the responsibilities of being a parent in the near future, rasher?

[rasher]

Can v trust the result of pregnency test strip

[aimee_tt]

If it says she is pregnant then most likely she is.

[rasher]

But shows negative.. after how many days of intercourse shall v do the test so that the result will b correct

[rasher]

V r of 20 and 21...

[aimee_tt]

Read the label on the side of the box. It should tell you when to use them.

[Clough]

v r of 20 and 21...

Does this mean "We are of [ages] 20 and 21", please?

The use of chat speak on this site, is something that's not allowed because the site operates on an international basis. It could be that the person who might be the best person to answer your question, might not be able to do that because of not being able to read something that you've written if you use chat speak.

[dontknownuthin]

Giddiness? You mean she's in pain but she's laughing and goofing around? How odd.

A lot of things can cause abdominal pains and there's no way anyone can guess - it could be food poisoning, gas, appendicitis, a gall bladder attack, an ovarian cyst, an ectopic pregnancy (when a woman is pregnant but the baby is growing in the wrong place, like in a fallopian tube) or a regular pregnancy. She should go to a doctor and you should stop having sex, particularly unprotected sex, until you are able to take full financial responsibility (and make the time commitment and commitment to the mother) for a child. I'd guess that's not now.

Know that even with protection pregnancies happen all the time - as the boy you'll hae very little say over what becomes of the pregnancy - she may have an abortion whether you want her to or not, may have the baby and keep it - whether you want her to or not - or may decide to place the baby for adoption - which you'd have more say about but not total. In any event, you're not in the driver's seat if a pregnancy results so you might not want to risk it.

You can go pretty far with a girl without risking pregnancy or disease... you and your girlfriend need to be a little more responsible, and creative, about your sexual experimentation so you can feel close without risking health or a baby.

Take care!