[vinodthapa464]

I love sooooo much my girlfriend and really I can,nt live without her I'm ready to leave everything bcoz of her my family ma friend each and everything we are in 1.5 year relationship together but since before 3 months she started to work in call centre and there his one co-worker she started to go with him movies,(that also night shows)shopping, roaming,dinner an all. I always feel so incomfortable when she went with other guy I talk so many times to her about this thing and tell her each and everything how I feel but she has only one excause he is only kid and she is treating him as a friend.
But when she is with him she never pick my phone never talk to me properly also always saying am with ma friend and twice she went movie with that guy lying to me that she is going to meet her brother but I was know only she went for movie with that guy that guy alwys calling her each moment and when she talk to me that she always put on me hold and she talk so long long with that guy not only once he will call her again and again at least 5-6 times continue and she always putting me on hold I used to tell just say him you are talking to me you wl talk after sometime with him but she never do it.
He always bought for her eatables everyday and she always take it easily I used to say don't give him more offer but she always ignore my talk still am feeling so incomfort
I told her so many times don't go with other guys for movies an all but she used to say what is there we are just friend and she is ready to broke up with me because of this thing also?
So please anyone can help should I broke up with my girlfriend at least much better to die once only to dying everyday seeing this things? Please help me

[Cat1864]

I think you need to decide if you trust her. If you don't, then let the relationship and her go. If you do, sit down and discuss the issues with her and work out a compromise on boundaries with her friend. Don't dictate. Work together.

Honestly, I think you need to let her go. I don't know if she has feelings for him other than friendship, but I think she is at the very least rebelling against being told who she can be friends with and how to be friends with the person. I don't see you accepting that they might just be friends and easing up enough so that she stops acting out. I see her actions getting worse if you don't.

[vinodthapa464]

I think you need to decide if you trust her. If you don't, then let the relationship and her go. If you do, sit down and discuss the issues with her and work out a compromise on boundaries with her friend. Don't dictate. Work together.

Honestly, I think you need to let her go. I don't know if she has feelings for him other than friendship, but I think she is at the very least rebelling against being told who she can be friends with and how to be friends with the person. I don't see you accepting that they might just be friends and easing up enough so that she stops acting out. I see her actions getting worse if you don't.

Thanks yaar and I broke up with her day before yesterday

[Cat1864]

I am sorry the relationship had to end like that, but I think it is probably for the best.

If you want any advice on what to do now, please, just add it to this thread and we will do our best to help you.

Good luck in the future.

[Devorameira]

Sorry about the break up, but if you felt like you couldn't trust her, there was no choice - you had to do it.

Better days lie ahead... be patient!

[nikkinicknick]

I love how committed you are and how you say this it seems she is not. You need a girl that will open her heart to you and not look at others. It sounds like she is cheating and frankly no one likes cheaters. Its going to hurt but my advice is to break up with her because the pain your feeling from her actions. Maybe then she will realize the problem. Best of luck

[Homegirl 50]

I'm sorry things went that way and that you are probably hurting, but it is probably for the best.
If you need support, we are here.

[vinodthapa464]

She loves me now I give her one more chance she said she won't do again so I accept her because I really trust her let'c in the future what will happen because now me also ready for each and every thing thanks for replies dear all my friends

[Cat1864]

she loves me now i give her one more chance she said she won't do again so i accept her coz i really trust her let'c in the future what will happen coz now me also ready for each n every thing thanks for replies dear all my frnds

Good luck and remember to work together to rebuild the relationship. We will still be here if you need more advice.

[vinodthapa464]

Thanks a lot

[vinodthapa464]

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