[martha444]

I have been talking to this guy online.. I really like him.We chatted about
4 times. He even put me down as his favorite on his list.. Anyway the last
Time we chatted we made plans to chat on Sunday night but he never came on.So I do not know what happened. Anyway I saw that he was on
Last night but I got off quickly so he did not see that I was on.. SHould
I ask him what happened or live it alone...

[Devorameira]

Why not just ask him? He may have a really good legitimate excuse for not being on-line. He could have had a family emergency or been sick himself. You'll never know until you ask.

[J_9]

How old are the two of you? You've only chatted with him 4 times and you are already smitten?

[martha444]

We are both 33.I just have a good feeling about him... Thank you for answering

[I wish]

Why all the mind games? If you want to know something, then ask him directly. None of us can read his mind, so we don't know what he's thinking.

[Jake2008]

Maybe its time to get off the computer, and go for a walk in the park, or out for coffee. Face to face.

Awfully difficult to determine what his motives were when it was online.

But, be careful. With someone you have never met in person, keep personal details to yourself (address, where you work etc), until you know a lot more about him, than you do now.