[Kitty1007]

Hi there

Me and my boyfriend has been dating for four years now. Beginning of this year my boyfriends mom has been saying very rude things to me.

Here is what she is saying to me:

I didn't eat all my food because I was full then one morning she told me next time I must tell her when I am full because she will just remind me on how my mom, my dad and my brother is starving of hunger. (Boyfriend laughed at this)

She keeps on saying I wasn't bought up properly. (Boyfriend told me that she thinks the way she brings up her kids that's the way every parent should do)

Now she tells me I am liar and I don't have respect for anyone etc. (Boyfriend said because of his mom and me that we might drift apart)

I can't take anymore of this.

I live with them for 2 years I can't move out because I don't earn enough.

I am really giving up I can't say anything to her because what I will say will only be bad.

Those 3 points was just and few I mentioned there is a lot more and I am really giving up.

Please help me anyone?

[Eileen G]

I think you need to make an effort to move out. She doesn't like you, you don't like her, but you are stuck living under her roof.

Change job, or go back to college and get student accommodation. You need to become independent, so that you can meet your boyfriend's mother as an equal rather than a naughty child.

[talaniman]

Why can't you go home and get your life together and not be dependent on her for a roof over your head and food on the table?

It is HER house, and HER RULES. So she can say whatever she wants. ANY ONE who doesn't like it should leave. Or else do as she says. Oh, and your boyfriend is no help at all!

Seems between the two of you, a plan of having your own place could be worked on. If you had a real relationship, instead of this sham of one.