[Ginny13]

OK, so I like two boys from my school, first one is in my year (also, my tutor group) and he's really cute and the wrong thing is that he knows that I like him, everyone in our year (year 9) knows that I like him but I'm totally fine with it. Though, we barely speak to each other... Anyway, we're doing 2 classes together and we're in the same team at Science and I'm really happy with that and he's always being nice and funny and smiles at me and he's being silly (cute! ) and before he found out that I like him ( I trusted the wrong person) he was really nice to me and he used to "flirt" (I think) and smile (but not in in an normal way) and I really thought that it meant something but after that he was distant and I didn't really like it. I fell like I really hate him sometimes... But now everything it's back to normal (even if still like him ;)) ). It's a bit annoying because most of his friends ask me if I still like him or if I WOULD like to go out with him and most of them are trying to "persuade" me to ask him out but I'm sure that it doesn't mean anything (he can't like me or something, I'm sure of it, it's impossible, he even lied that he has a girlfriend so he might like someone else) and I'm really confused!
OK, now the second one. He's is my school too, but he's in year 11 (he leaves at the end of this year). And we're in different houses. I'm almost 14 and he's 16 and a half so it's a big difference between us. He also used to live next to me for 8-9 months and I know it's a bit awkward, but it a coincidence to be in the same school. I really miss him and his family... His parents are really nice to me and I like them and I really love their dog ( I love dogs! ), but I've NEVER talked to him and I'm really sorry about it and it's a bit too late to say something now (I think). I didn't talk with his older brother neither (he's 19, also cute, but I don't like him), but I guess I was to shy to talk with them, I mean they're really cute! Now I moved from him and he'll be gone after this year... :(( =(( And I think that his best friend thinks that I'm annoying and I really don't like it x( Sometimes when I go home from school his like a few steps away from me or more and he and his friends r looking back at me... I really like he guy from my tutor but I KNOW that I'm in love with my cute neighbor!! What should I do?? I'm sooo CONFUSED!

[justcurious55]

You're 14. You're not in love with anyone. They're called crushed. Harsh maybe, but true. You admitted you haven't even talked to the older guy yet. You can't be in love with someone you've never even talked to. You're in love with the ideas you have about him. You don't know what he's really like. And that's fine if you have a crush on the other guy too. But why the rush to date? Enjoy what's left of your adolescence. Have fun flirting. There's nothing wrong with that.

[Larken85]

Take your time. There is no need for all this rush. It is often that girls your age like two different people, men too, but what you got to remember is that you can't have them both.

Its never too late to try, but don't push yourself into something you're not ready for. (besides he should be asking you out... its the guy's role.)

[RadioActive697]

Like they said there is no need to rush. And your only thirteen. You will meet plenty more guys that are better and who will treat you better. I'm your age and I have been in your type of situation and what I learned is that I shouldn't be so worked up over boys. And that really helped a lot. Do I flirt? Yes there's nothing wrong with it but do I quickly say I love to that person right away no. So think about it before you just hop and say I love you. Goodluck.