[Rocken_Lipstick]

I have a best friend who likes me but she's a girl and I'm a girl what do I do

[The Dark09]

Are you single

[J_9]

Hun, with all due respect, you are only 11 years old. Girls of this age can like each other. It's called "being friends."

[The Dark09]

Yea

[Rocken_Lipstick]

Yea but she always wants to kiss me

[J_9]

Tell her no, that it's not appropriate.

[Rocken_Lipstick]

I try

[hheath541]

At 11, you shouldn't be kissing anyone, boy OR girl. Wait a few years before you even think about dating.

[Rocken_Lipstick]

I've dated plenty of guys!!

[hheath541]

That doesn't mean you SHOULD be dating. Be a kid. Stop trying to grow up.

[Fr_Chuck]

Yes, at 11 you don't "date" of kiss,

That is how children 12 end up being pregnant.

[Rocken_Lipstick]

I'm not

[talaniman]

What kinds of dates do 11 year olds go on??

[hheath541]

They hold hands before and after school and play on the swings together at recess.

[Rize]

Well do you like her back? Since you alreay started dating people and obviously you won't stop once you started, if you want, than be with her.
If u don't like her back, tell her that you don't roll that way, but you want her as a friend. Tell her its not because of any personal reason, just that you don't roll that way. If u lose her as a friend, than forget about it. She was probably using you anyway. You don't find your real friends till high school or mainly college. In life you gain and loose a lot of people. If someone didn't make it to your future, they probably don't belong there hun. Don't give in just to give in, hold to your principles, it will really pay of. Don't care what other people think. If u want to experiment, than go for it. Just know the consequences. It's really not as difficult as your making it. Just choose what you want to do, and than stick to it. But first, decide what you want.

Btw, I agree with everyone else. You shouldn't date. Even if you did, it wouldn't amount too much. Bu t since you started, yea.

[Kitkat22]

[You are an 11 year old child and as Heath said you need to be an 11 year old child. This other girl is the same age? I really doubt you are dating at 11 years old. Where are your parents when this "dating" occurs?

Be a kid... Don't try to grow up too fast. Tell this girl you are not interested. Save yourself and her a lot of trouble!

[hheath541]

Well do you like her back? Since u alreay started dating people and obviously u won't stop once u started, if u want, than be with her.
If u don't like her back, tell her that u don't roll that way, but u want her as a friend. Tell her its not because of any personal reason, just that u don't roll that way. If u lose her as a friend, than forget about it. She was probably using u anyway. U don't find ur real friends till highschool or mainly college. In life u gain and loose alot of people. if someone didn't make it to ur future, they probably don't belong there hun. Don't give in just to give in, hold to ur principles, it will really pay of. don't care what other people think. If u want to experiment, than go for it. Just know the consequences. It's really not as difficult as ur making it. Just choose what u want to do, and than stick to it. But first, decide what you want.

Btw, I agree with everyone else. U shouldn't date. Even if you did, it wouldn't amount to much. bu t since u started, yea.

What you are failing to take into consideration, is how hard it can be to be in a same-sex relationship. Especially when you're still in school.

At 11, neither girl is emotionally and mentally ready to handle the reality of the situation. They will face teasing, losing friends, disapproval from family, and possibly even violence. Kids are mean. They will attack anyone they see as different. Even if all they do while 'dating' is hold hands in the hallway, they still face a level of emotional abuse they are, most likely, unfamiliar with.

Put simply; these girls are not ready for a relationship. It is NOT as simple as rather or not they like each other. There is a lot more to consider, that they simply do not have the experience to deal with.

[Kitkat22]

Hate crimes... Happens everyday. You don't tell an 11 year old to go for it. It's hard enough in school as it is. :confused:

[talaniman]

She doesn't want to kiss her female friend, so she has to be clear with her about it. And take actions to enforce her NO!!

[Kitkat22]

She doesn't want to kiss her female friend, so she has to be clear with her about it. And take actions to enforce her NO!!!

Can you imagine.. eleven years old.. What a world!:(