[superzazou1]

hi every body I really need help cause I can't live like this
my girlfreind and I w'ere so much in love of each other and both of us know we don't live together but we used to spend our 24\7 toogether and she used to call me every 30 min to tell me how much she love me and she used to send me text message to tell me the same thing and I do the same untll all this start to get less and less because ( she sad that she is busy with her mom that came to visit her ) so we start to have sum smal figth about that and she told me that we must take a brake till her mom going to go and so things won't get worst I sad okey and then I get in figth with here because of her decision cause I was mad but I tried to hide it,,
anyway I cald her next morning and I told her I can't live without here and I want her in my life but she said that still we must take a break but we can call each other
I didn't call here since then and she didn't also it have been 5 days and another 10 days till her mom going to go so what shold I do I can't live without her and she know that ( cause I used to tell her I love her a lot and she is my prinsess even after she stop saying the same things for me ) so what should I do ?
specialy that she like when we get in figth that I call her or give her flowers cause she think its so nice and good \
plzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help me I'm diying here 10x for all

[J_9]

Whoa, slow that pony way down!!

You are going way too fast and too furious. Every 1/2 hour? Really? You 2 are smothering each other. You need time for you, she needs time for her.

This is really a crash and burn situation as it is right now.

You better give her the space your you are going to lose her. Get busy doing things you used to like to do before you met her. But give her the break she asked for.

[JoeCanada76]

superzazou1
This is the third post I have seen. Post in one thread and do not keep opening new threads for the same question.

[talaniman]

Calm down and chill till mama leaves.

[ordinaryguy]

Too intense, too fast, too much, too soon. Calm down, back off, chill out, be still.

[Wildcat21]

Classic case of smothering - you shouldn't even have to talk with every day!!

Yuck - gross.

She is part of your life - not your life. You put way too much inportance into her WAY to osoon.

And calling every 30 minutes - yuck!! Call her like twice a week in the beginning. And see her like once or twice a week.

GO SLOW!! Romance is a marathn - not a sprint.

Leave her alone - no contact for a coupel months.

You need to leave her alone for a while - she is NOT your life - she would only be a small part of it.

Learn balance - you need to hang wit hyour friends - work, school, fmaily, hobbies, sports, WORK OUT

Leave her alone - this one was a learning experience.

[imation]

Stop. Step back. Have a look at the situation
If you had someone around you allllll the time (24/7 as you said) and called every half hour... would you every have time just to stop and chill and do your own thing?
She wants a break so you can realise this.
Whether you realise it or not by the time her mum leaves is up to you
As for 'i can't live without her'.. what have you been doing for the last 5 days?
As hurt as you say you are.. you are still alive, no?
Forget about it, call her once a week MAX! And just leave her be
She'll come back to you once you stop smothering her

[worthbeads]

Use periods.